Imagined college life should be beautiful, right? It is possible for several roommates to eat together, play together, go shopping together and so on. But what people don't see is that college life can also be lonely. It is normal to eat alone, go out to find a part-time job, read books in the library and be busy with various school activities. University life is lonely, no one can always accompany you, only yourself.

One: Everyone has everyone's dreams.

Although the university is also a school, it is different from our junior high school. In the past, everyone had a dream of being admitted to a good university. After going to college, everyone's dreams have become different. Some people just want to play games, sleep and sleep in the dormitory. But some people want to go out and find a part-time job and earn money to support themselves by their own ability. So we have different goals, so we can't get together.

Two: the life trajectory is different.

University is like a small society, where you can show your talents to the maximum extent, and of course you can live a plain life, depending on what you pursue. Some people get up early in the morning to run for exercise, some people can sleep until noon, some people get up to study, and some people just don't repeat the grade. Only when you meet like-minded people can you get along, otherwise you will be alone.

Three: low-quality socialization does not involve high-quality solitude.

When I first entered the university, everyone wanted not to be unsociable, so I tried to make friends to cater to others. But do I mean it? In fact, this is not the case. Low-quality socialization does not involve high-quality solitude. Even if I have a few friends, just eating, drinking and having fun together every day will not help you at all. In that case, I might as well be alone.

University is a lonely journey. It is good to have good friends. If not, then learn to be alone and improve yourself.