When you are new to the workplace, do more and talk less. The most important thing is to behave yourself, so that you can rise to the top. 1, the way to be a man. Learn to be a man first. "Filial piety is the first of all virtues". First of all, be a grateful person, be grateful to your parents and honor your elders. As parents, as long as we set an example and set a good example, children will naturally look at it and be filial. In addition, we educate our daughter to be honest, not hypocritical and snobbish, to look at the advantages of others and be good at getting along with others. I remember that my daughter was a bit "cynical" in the rebellious period of junior high school, and her words and deeds were a bit extreme, and her evaluation of her classmates and teachers was also biased. I never simply deny it, but put facts and truth in front of my daughter. Judging from the comparison between her daughter's entry into high school and junior high school, her daughter sees things more objectively. Every year, we take our daughter out to visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland and let her feel the beauty of the outside world; Take your daughter to a school for the deaf as a volunteer, so that she can feel the happiness of caring for others; This paper discusses the importance of keeping an optimistic attitude when a daughter encounters setbacks in the exam, and encourages her to be an optimistic person and have a happy heart. 2. Lifestyle. We teach our daughter to be aggressive. As parents, we should first be conscientious and strive for progress. Our daughter can see clearly the little achievements we have made, which will also greatly promote her. We educate our daughter to learn to cooperate and be good at communication. When I was in primary school, my daughter was very timid. She is afraid to talk and communicate with others. We see it in our eyes and are anxious in our hearts. We seek expert advice. It happened that Zhangjiagang came to the school to recruit a small reporter, and her daughter was admitted. We fully support it. After several years of reporter training, my daughter has made great changes in communication and cooperation with others.