"Some people say that girls will meet boys who are better than schools in society, and it is difficult for boys to find girls who are better than schools. I'm telling you now that you misunderstood this sentence. Boys are still immature on campus. 19 to 25-year-old boys are generally more reluctant than girls of the same age, but in society, men soon become much better, which shows that a few years in college is an important period for boys to mature. And girls have become practical in society, so there is a saying you often hear! And I always think that Tsinghua is better than boys in Peking University because boys in Tsinghua can learn to wait! This is why Tsinghua has produced far more national leaders than Peking University. Men need loneliness. If you can't stand loneliness, it only shows that your heart is not strong enough! Many boys think that how many friends you have and how beautiful your girlfriend are can prove your charm, so I can only say that you really need to grow up. A really good man must be unpretentious, even cautious, and must be a loner, because only silence can make you wise, not anxious! Zhuge Liang's book of precepts says: be quiet to cultivate one's morality, be frugal to cultivate one's morality! If you invest in a woman in this man's most important years, you will always beg this woman not to leave you in the next few decades. If you invest in yourself, then in the remaining decades, you will successfully harvest the love that truly belongs to you. Remember: love is a luxury spiritual enjoyment based on material foundation! Also, I once said in Zhengzhou University how to see if a man is good in the future, that is, a boy who is uglier than me but can laugh confidently. Why, because in college, such boys are generally not very attractive and can't get the favor of girls, so they can only do their own things to make up for the emptiness left out. But it turns out that doing your own thing well is more valuable than being favored by anyone! Don't cry, go your own way and walk out of the future! Third, thank the girls who left you. Men can be brave and gentle, but they can't live without sincerity. How big their hearts are, how big their future is! What's more, the survey found that a man will mature only after being hurt by four or five women, so it can be said that those women who leave you make you stand out, and people are educating you with a woman's best time. This investment should be said to be quite large and should be grateful! This is also the reason why old men like Yu, Ma Yun, Shi Yuzhu and Li Yang are today. You can go and see who is particularly popular at school. Don't! We all feel inferior, because of looks, because of poverty! So, don't think you have nothing. When you have nothing, God helps you empty the garbage and let you put the most useful things in it. At this time, you are already very close to the departure point of that life! "