I think the first question freshmen face when they enter the university is whether they can be independent. Because many people are studying in foreign schools. When a person goes to school in a foreign country, it is inevitable that he will be somewhat uncomfortable. That's what I am. Although my home is not particularly far from school, it is not in a city. Going to a strange environment for the first time made me feel insecure. Because I left my comfort zone and started to do everything by myself. I feel lonely at the thought of eating alone, shopping alone and studying alone in the future. So we must overcome this difficulty alone. First of all, the biggest challenge is yourself. Actually, don't be afraid of being alone. It's good to have many friends, but it's good to be alone. A person's time is very free, treat a person's time as enjoyment rather than loneliness.

I am a very dependent person. Before me. Speaking of making friends. I will also become very introverted. I don't actively communicate with others. So there are not many friends around. I am a very slow person. So I went to college alone. I long for a bosom friend who can accompany me.

But gradually I found out. I'm not that dependent. I'll start. Adapt to this strange environment. My classmates are all very kind to me. They will open their hearts and talk to me. Slowly, I will take the initiative to communicate with them. It is their positive and optimistic attitude that drives me. It also makes me optimistic. Outward. Wherever they go, they always call me. I am very touched. I don't want to ask for help because I think asking for help will trouble others. But when I really have good friends, they let me know that the help between good friends is actually no trouble. If. They will regard your difficulties as their own and try their best to help you solve them. So let's not be afraid of loneliness. Make friends. Learn to be independent on the premise.