When I was in college, I was lovelorn because at a certain moment, I suddenly found that the other person didn't seem as good as I thought. The other party has some shortcomings, and these shortcomings are unacceptable to me. The relationship between the two people naturally came to an end, and they got along for a while, which was about 20 years old. At such a sensitive age, I naturally have the impression of each other in my heart, and I also have reservations about some good memories of the past. The fate of the past has passed, so there will be a period of low tide after lovelorn, but soon this period will pass.
In the low tide after lovelorn, as friends, we can help each other to divert our attention. There are many ways to divert attention, such as dragging each other to study together, going to the gym together, and then going out to play together. He pays more attention to the memories of real life, the novels of the present and the longing for the past, so he reduces the memories of the past, because memories can only make people fragile and cannot make people change in any good direction. The past cannot be changed. They may have had a very happy time, but they can't go back to that time. Because of some realistic contradictions, they are doomed to be unable to bow to each other, so life has to go on.
Even when I was in college, I can't extricate myself from being lovelorn now, but I will soon find that there are still many things worth pursuing. So college lovelorn is not a particularly serious thing. Almost everyone talks about one or more love affairs in college, and lovelorn is naturally a long-term thing.