Moreover, if you get married in college, it will actually add points to your life, and doing a good job will also add points. Therefore, in college, you should actually be supported to have children in college.
But in fact, in college, it is unrealistic to have children now, because first of all, for you, when you were in college, your children were so big, so you were not so mature physically or psychologically.
If one of you still has a child in college, can you support the child to live, can you raise the child and have the energy to accompany him to grow up?
And once you have a child, it means that the child must have a father. So for the child, can the relationship between the father and you be so stable?
You two are so young that you have no stability in your relationship or work. For children, this may also be a risk factor, but for you, it is actually more anxiety.
And for parents and universities, in fact, the most important task of your university is to learn and master new knowledge and skills, so that you can gain a foothold in society.
I can find a job that suits me, so that I can take on that responsibility whether I get married or have children in the future.