First of all, I understand your difficulty. I think you are very happy to have two children in your family, and both of them can be admitted to such a good university. But for various reasons, according to your family's economic conditions, only one person can go to college, and I can particularly understand your feelings. But what I want to say is that there is no flaming mountain that we can't cross. We will bite our teeth and stick to it, no matter how difficult it is. Here, I also summarize several methods for you based on my own experience and share them with you, hoping to help you:

1, ask for help from the university.

As far as our current good social situation is concerned, universities generally choose to give preferential treatment to poor families who can't afford to go to college. We can go directly to the university and the president or person in charge of the university and explain our difficulties to him truthfully. For us, under normal circumstances, schools will lend a helping hand. Even if you don't give substantial financial help, you will be given some corresponding measures, such as helping students pay their tuition fees first, and then letting them.

Step 2 Seek social help

At present, there are many projects to help the poor solve their difficulties, such as charity fundraising, various charitable activities, various crowdfunding apps and so on. As long as you pay attention, we can sign up for various projects, then fill in the relevant information, tell the truth about your difficulties, and ask competent people to help us. I believe there are many good people in the society who are willing to help us. Everyone just needs to pay a little, which may be of great help to you.

3. Reasonable loans

The last way is me. You can only choose a reasonable loan, but it should be noted here that you must choose a very formal lending institution, try to find a small loan with low interest rate or micro interest rate from the bank, and then pay it back slowly with your two children. Small loans will not harm our normal life.