First, make the dormitory your home.
I don't know what you think of the concept of "dormitory", but I think this is my other home. After four years of college, dormitory life occupies almost 80% of your life. This is the first stop of your college life and the last stop of your leaving the college campus. So don't think that the dormitory is a simple place to sleep.
When we used to serve in the army, there was a word called "company is like home". Some people have served in the army for two, five or even more than ten years, and the company is their second home. In the big family of the company, they make contributions, evaluate achievements and award prizes. The company carries their youth and too many memories. How can it not love this family? It is true that the university dormitory carries our four years, so we should regard the dormitory as our home, cherish our home and make ourselves comfortable. This is what we college students should look like.
Second, pay more, in fact, you don't suffer.
I can't tell the truth of giving and losing. My mind is not strong enough and I often lose it. But what I want to say is, don't lower your experience of a better life because of some low-level practices of others.
The most troublesome thing in the dormitory is hygiene. Dormitory is a place for collective life. Everyone has different living habits, and some unpleasant things will inevitably happen. In the process of daily life, don't make you dislike cleaning just because you have a roommate who doesn't like cleaning. Try to clean up your own stall and make this dormitory look like it. For example, I am a self-disciplined and clean person, and I don't like being sloppy. So sometimes when I am free, I will tidy up my dormitory, tidy up myself and tidy up my dormitory. Looking at the clean dormitory, I feel naturally comfortable and my life is a little more comfortable.
Third, seek common ground while reserving differences and be more inclusive.
I don't know how people in the dormitory get along, but our dormitory has always adhered to the concept of "seeking common ground while reserving differences". At this point, everyone in the dormitory has a good life and gets along well. In fact, people can influence each other, but you can't ask others to be like you. So at this time, you need to build a circle with you and accept that your is different. For example, the dormitory environment is your circle, and the environmental sanitation of the dormitory needs everyone to maintain and maintain. In our dormitory, I usually take everyone to clean up and start work together. Naturally, cleaning is in place. In the usual sanitary maintenance, whoever sees that the ground is dirty will take the initiative to clean it up. So what I want to say is that in this circle, it is necessary to form a kind of * * *, that is, the spirit of hygiene. Of course, you can also make some arrangements on duty and define the division of labor. As for personality differences, it's no big deal. Young people's circles should still be happy.
The above three points are just personal feelings, so I will share them here for the time being.