People who can't figure it out and do things they don't understand, why is the university not like what they think?
Yes, this is a university.
I remember a popular saying on the Internet:
I've always wondered why universities should arrange their courses so loosely and then spend four years instead of graduating from seven to five for two years like middle schools. The topic we are talking about today is: How do college students adapt to college students?
02, adapt to the learning environment of the university.
Only when I get to the university will I understand that the university is the place where I need to study most, not the "easy to go to college" as the teacher said.
When you get to college, no one cares whether you learn or not. The teacher left after class, and you may only see it during the semester.
When you get to college, even if you sleep in class every day, the teacher won't care about you or talk about you. Whether to learn or not is your business, not the teacher's.
You get all the certificates yourself, so get on well with the teacher and he will give you some advice. If you don't know each other, he won't force you to take any exams.
It is your choice to lead the master into the door, practice by yourself, attend classes or take exams.
Adapt to the relaxed atmosphere of the university and form the habit of self-discipline to adapt to the high-pressure working atmosphere in the future.
03, adapt to the people in the university.
Don't try to make many sincere friends in college. If possible, it's good to make one or two people who can talk to each other.
You feel sincere to others, in order to get others' gratitude. But many times, others will only pay attention to you when they need you, and will not pay too much attention to you when they don't need you.
In this case, don't lament people's feelings. Have you ever heard the saying: if you are not afraid of being used, you are afraid of being useless.
Therefore, in college, you must mix. Only by making yourself excellent will more excellent people take care of you.
Of course, if you meet one or two sincere friends, you must cherish them, because these people will go for a lifetime. Adapt to the people in the university and see through those right and wrong.
04, adapt to the "praise" in the university.
Before college, few people praised you and many people criticized you. After college, many people praised you and few criticized you.
No matter what you are doing, there will always be someone praising you, even if it is a small matter.
Maybe the others are just oral habits. After all, anyone who is praised will feel a little overjoyed.
While thanking others for their compliments, you should know how much you weigh.
There are such people around, and they can't stand the praise of others. When others praised them too much, they began to drift, and they began to feel how powerful they were.
This is a sad story ... many times it's not that you are excellent, but that others regard praise as a habit.
05, adapt to the communication in the university.
University can't fix everything in one sentence. Sometimes I need to invite you to dinner. Don't be stingy.
Others may not value this meal, but your character.
In fact, this has a lot to do with emotional intelligence. In college, we often hear the story of "being able to do things", which is actually to praise others for their high emotional intelligence. On holidays, Spring Festival, the greetings must arrive.
Don't always be reluctant to spend money. You must spend your money on your friends.
A meal and a gift, though not worth much, can deepen the relationship between your.