So this type of woman is especially popular when men fall in love. They have many men, friends and suitors. But this type of woman is very unstable and can't give men a sense of security. Men like women who want to refuse and welcome, but they don't want to marry such an open-minded woman.
Men love to play, as everyone knows. But this situation for men is only before marriage. When getting married, most men like to choose gentle and skilled women. Even such a woman is not beautiful and sociable.
If a man marries such a stable woman, his married life will be more stable in the future. The reason why men don't marry women who are too open is that they are afraid that such women will not be peaceful in their later marriage life.
If a man marries a woman who is too open-minded, it is easy to cheat after marriage. After marriage, men actually want their marriage life to be relatively stable and smooth. Meanwhile, no man wants his wife to be surrounded by many other men.
Therefore, when getting married, it is more important than anything to find a woman with a stable, quiet and mature personality. Marriage means ordinary, and married couples don't pay attention to romance and passion in everything. Married first, then married, married couples are working hard in the direction they want. Therefore, a woman who is too enlightened will never have such like-minded ideas.
Of course, many men don't want their wives to be judged by people around them after marriage. But a woman who is too open is surrounded by many other members of the opposite sex. Even if she doesn't cheat, she will be spread by gossip around her, which is also the biggest reason why men can't marry too enlightened women.