introduce
The ancients said: "Take profit as your friend, and profit will be scattered;" If the color is crossed, the color will fade. " ? Therefore, establishing a healthy concept of marriage and love is the main guarantee for a happy marriage. ? It needs to be improved by constantly strengthening ideological cultivation and cultivating sentiment. ? So, as far as its specific content is concerned, what kind of love view is ideal or basically correct? ? How to judge whether your love view is correct? ? Here is a self-test method of love concept. The scale is * * * band 17? A questionnaire containing three questions.
instruction
Under each question, there are four different choices. Please tick the letters that match your idea. Select only one question.
Question? ? Eye selection? Articles? minute
1. What is your imaginary love?
A.it's charming and romantic.
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. Be able to satisfy your own desires
2 ? 1 ? 3? ? 0
C. cheer people up
D. never thought about it
This is how you want to know your lover.
A. gradually develop love in work and study.
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. childhood friends
3 ? 2 ? 1? ? 1
C.it doesn't matter if you fall in love at first sight
D. No matter what
What are your main requirements for your future wife?
A. Some people praised her for her beauty.
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. Be good at housekeeping
1 ? 2 ? 1? ? three
C. obey your opinion
D. You can help yourself in many ways.
What are your main requirements for your future husband?
A. having money or status
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. Honest and enterprising
0 ? 3 ? 2? ? 1
C. Don't be addicted to alcohol and tobacco, think for yourself.
D. handsome and elegant
5. What do you think the perfect combination should be
A. Fit each other
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. beautiful
1 ? 1 ? 3? ? 2
C. congenial people
D. Like-minded
6. What do you think is the best way to consolidate love?
A. meet each other's material requirements
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. tenderness and sweetness
1 ? 0 ? 2? ? three
C. Do as your lover says.
D. Improve yourself
7. Which of the following aphorisms do you like best?
A. Life is precious, but love is more expensive.
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. the meaning of love is to help each other and improve yourself at the same time.
2 ? 3 ? 2? ? 1
C. share joys and sorrows.
D. I will do anything for love.
8. You want your lover to share your hobbies.
A. exactly the same
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. Although they are inconsistent, they can take care of each other.
1 ? 2 ? 0? ? three
C. Obey your own interests
D. non-interference
9. Your attitude when you find your lover's shortcomings.
A.it doesn't matter
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. don't like each other
1 ? 0 ? 2? ? three
C.i'm in pain.
D. Help him or her improve.
10? What do you think of the twists and turns in love?
A. it's best not to appear
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. feel unlucky
1 ? 2 ? 0? ? three
C. Find a way to break up
D. Think of it as a test of love.
1 1? What is your yearning for family?
A. Being able to be with your lover every day.
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. Life destination
2 ? 1 ? 1? ? three
C. You can enjoy family happiness
D. Inspire new life pursuits
12? When you have a friend of the opposite sex, you will
A. tell your lover to continue their relationship with their consent.
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. let the lover know, but don't interfere.
3 ? 2 ? 1? ? 1
C. Don't tell
D. whether to say or not depends on the endurance of the lover.
13? The opposite sex is better than lovers and has a good impression on themselves.
A. please each other and get close to each other
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. Keep friendship and explain the situation
0 ? 3 ? 2? ? 1
C. Take a cold attitude
D. ignore it
14? When you can't find your ideal lover for a long time
A. reflect on whether your mate selection criteria are practical.
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. As always
3 ? 1 ? 0? ? 1
C. Despair, even despair
D. Pick any one.
15? When the person you love doesn't love you.
A. break up with him or her happily
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. Defame each other's reputation
3 ? 0 ? 1? ? 1
C. Do everything possible to pester each other
D. confusion
16? When your lover changes his mind for immoral reasons, you will
A. Retaliation
Answer? b？ c？ d
B. spread each other's shortcomings
0 ? 1 ? 2? ? three
C. pretend you're not sure.
D. Lessons learned
17? When you find that your lover has another love.
A. courting more passionately
Answer? b？ c？ d
Try to break them up.
1 ? 0 ? 3? ? 2
C. if they are not sure about the relationship, they will compete.
D. Take the initiative to quit
Total? ? minute
Scoring method and explanation
Tick each √? Fill in the numbers below the letters in the score column on the right, and then add up the scores of all the questions. ? The total score is 46? The above points show that the concept of love is correct; 42? ~? 46? Points, basically correct; 42? The following points show that the concept of love needs to be adjusted.