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I have just been dating my girlfriend for two months, and I am in the same class in college, but she has been ignoring me recently, and the novelty may be gone. What should I do?
Can I say something? I only focus on novelty. How to keep fresh? As you said, if you want to have a long-term relationship and keep it fresh, you must do the following:

1. distance, keep a good distance between two people, and don't stick together too much. Even if you miss her very much, don't wait for her downstairs many times a day, don't text her many times a day, and don't call her many times a day. These are all boring things. You should let her know slowly that you also have your own space, and you have your own things to do, and you can't just revolve around her;

2. Love yourself. It may be cruel to tell you this now, but you really have to understand a truth: you have to love yourself before others will love you! Don't act great, you can do anything for each other. If you do, you will regret it, because the real long-term relationship is that both sides are paying and working hard, not you alone. Unbalanced feelings may be broken at any time.

Don't say those three words over and over again, no matter how beautiful the language is, it will make people tired.

Don't make a promise easily unless you are absolutely sure.

Leave two people time and space that belongs to one person. Don't think that since you are in love, you have to put everything together.

6. Don't follow her in everything, don't spoil her too much, let her know what you think and what you can and can't accept.

7. Words can't be said, things can't be done, everything is too late, fate is early, and we must understand the truth that it is too late.

That's all. Let us learn from others. Wish you success! (I copied the above, let me express my opinion below) 1 Have your own way, have a goal in life, love is not for nothing, you don't need to eat it every day, you will get bored. Enrich your life, don't put all your energy on one point, and don't let her feel that you can't live without her. Girls hate this kind of boy. If you don't take the initiative to find her, you may still get something. You must accept it.