First of all, we should not mistake friendship for love. Some students can't accurately distinguish friendship from love in their communication with the opposite sex, which adds a lot of trouble to both sides. The opposite sex should rationally grasp the boundary between friendship and love, and healthy friendship can be established and maintained between the opposite sex.

Second, don't misplace love. Some students put love in the highest position in life, pursue love supreme and indulge in emotional lingering, which easily leads to misunderstanding of life goals, especially for college students who need to devote their main energy to their studies.

Third, don't be one-sided and utilitarian in treating love. No matter whether you sketch a love idol divorced from reality in your own mind, or just pursue the external image, or only value each other's economic conditions, or just regard love as a way to get rid of loneliness, you can't produce sincere feelings and get real love.

Fourth, we can't just focus on the process, regardless of the consequences. Responsibility is an important guarantee of long-term love, and it is also the touchstone of faithful love. Voluntary responsibility is the connotation of acceptance and promotes the realm of love. If you "don't care about eternity, just come back and have it", treating acceptance as a game will hurt the other party and yourself.

Fifth, we should lose the direction of life because of lovelorn. The process of love is a process of mutual familiarity and emotional coordination between two lovers. It's normal that you love success and failure. College students should treat lovelorn correctly, so as not to lose their temper, lose their morality, affect their study and life, and lose their yearning and pursuit of love. To establish a correct view of love, college students should handle several relationships well.

The first is the relationship between love and study. Learning is the main task of college students. College students should regard love as the motivation to study hard, and at the same time take whether it is conducive to promoting learning as an important and special standard to measure the value of love.

The second is the relationship between love and caring for the collective. Both parties in love should not confine themselves to the world of two people. If you leave the group and alienate your classmates, it will hinder your all-round development and progress.

The third is the relationship between love and caring for others and society. Love is rich and broad, not only for lovers, parents, brothers and sisters, society and country. If we only focus on the love for lovers and ignore the love for others, society and country, such love will appear selfish and vulgar; On the contrary, loving others and society will make love noble and stable.

College students can get married if they meet the marriage conditions stipulated by Chinese laws, but they need to be cautious and rational about getting married and starting a family. The fundamental task of a university is to complete their studies, constantly improve and perfect themselves, and to get married and start a family in a hurry before entering the society will have many negative effects on the school and life. Marriage not only represents two of a kind, but also represents responsibilities and obligations. Therefore, once you get married and start a family, you should adjust and change your role in time and assume corresponding responsibilities and obligations. Because the university master is basically a consumer during the school life, it is inevitable to get a lot of expenses from the big family. College students who get married and start a family should plan rationally, do what they can, be thrifty, and try not to add too much burden to their parents or affect their studies.