Therefore, many parents are very concerned about their children's learning, and they have been "burning the midnight oil" since primary school, and studying in the middle of the night is a common occurrence. However, there is a father who is not like this. His education of children can be called "free range".
My father's name is "Wang Jianjun" and he has three children. The eldest son was particularly outstanding since he was a child and was admitted to a famous foreign school when he grew up. The second daughter's performance is also excellent, but the younger son, Wang Yuan, has poor academic performance, poor physical fitness and shy personality, which is far from his brother and sister.
Such a child is undoubtedly a "scum" in the background of his brother and sister, but his father Wang Jianjun has never given up and has been looking for ways to change the child. The last method he used was to turn a "scum" into a "Harvard top student".
From the school residue to top student, my father talked about his experience: paying close attention to primary education.
1) Insist on physical exercise and improve self-confidence.
Wang Yuan once doubted that he was not smart enough to do anything. Father Wang Jianjun should first improve his children's self-confidence before improving his academic performance.
Every day, he would let his children go to bed before 9 pm to recharge their batteries, but he insisted that Wang Yuan take physical exercise while other children were immersed in their homework.
It is important to go to bed before 9 pm, which many parents can't do.
Dr. Zhang Wenhong mentioned in the first lesson of the school that primary school students should ensure 10 hours of sleep.
Many parents complain that they can't do it. Most of the reasons are too much homework. In fact, the amount of homework in primary schools is not that big. Improve learning efficiency and you can finish it.
In addition, those children who can't sleep before 9 o'clock, because of insufficient exercise, increase their exercise during the day and naturally fall asleep next to the pillow at night.
It seems that it is not so difficult to learn to help children open the door to self-confidence by adjusting their living habits.
Strictly grasp the primary school stage
6- 12 years old is the golden age of education. If you miss it, you miss the most critical education stage. 6- 12 years old, just in primary school for six years. Wang Jianjun knows this truth well, so he has paid special attention to children's education since primary school.
Wang Yuan was able to fall asleep before 9 o'clock, not because his parents forced him to fall asleep after this time, but on the basis of finishing his homework efficiently.
Dad Wang Jianjun designed a process for his son: preview in advance and spend 25 minutes listening to the key points and difficulties in class. If you still don't understand, be sure to ask the teacher after class.
For the shy son, the father also advocated that Wang Yuan give lectures to himself every day and tell his father the knowledge of the class concisely, which not only reviewed and integrated the knowledge, but also exercised the child's expression ability.
Good study habits and methods, sound personality cultivation, with these potentials, Wang Yuanye was "accumulated" and admitted to many universities, and finally chose Harvard University to become what people call "other people's children".
This counterattack is perfect. As the leader of children, Wang Jianjun's father also deeply understands the importance of "primary education". He laid a good foundation for his son in primary school, developed good study habits, and let the child move in a positive direction.
Grasping children's learning in primary school requires not only verbal supervision, but also the book "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years" if children's primary school foundation is weak.
This book was recommended to me by the mother of Doudou, the next-door neighbor. Doudou's mother was worried about her children's study before. After reading "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years", she seems to have found the indicator light of family education, and the communication with her son Doudou has also become smooth.
Children also put off their homework before and began to do it on their own initiative. The time is also one hour ahead of schedule. In a recent exam, their scores rose to the top of the class.
After reading this book, I found that there are many real parenting cases in the book, and scientifically analyzed the study life, physical development and psychological perfection of children in six-year primary schools. From grade one to grade six, corresponding measures and suggestions will be put forward in different growth processes.
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