Puppy love generally refers to middle school students, but now children develop early, and there is puppy love in the fifth and sixth grades of primary school.
With the development of the body, adolescent children begin to have a good impression on the opposite sex, and some do not express it, that is, they secretly love it. At this time, it's just a simple affection, and I am eager to be with someone. It's very simple, and I won't consider getting married and starting a family in the future.
The child has gone to college and is 18 years old. Falling in love is normal, not puppy love.
College students are generally tacitly in love, unlike middle schools, which directly prohibit falling in love, because they are afraid of affecting their children's study, and then the influence is not good. Some students see someone in the class falling in love with the wind, and the whole class style will be affected.
How should parents educate?
1. Parents should not be overly nervous or blame their children.
When a child is an adult, don't be nervous, let alone blame the child. Take this as a normal thing.
However, it is necessary to do a good job in education. Since you are in love, you should really love each other and don't cheat each other. Still have to put your studies first, don't neglect your studies because of love.
2. Educate children to be adults and be responsible for their actions.
We should have the responsibility to protect ourselves and each other, enjoy happy time together, cherish each other, respect each other and make progress and improvement together. But we should also be measured and not hurt our health.
3. Educate children to know themselves correctly after being lovelorn, and don't get stuck in it.
In the future, due to work relationship or other reasons, there are still a few college students who will eventually enter the marriage hall. Therefore, it is necessary to educate children to have a beautiful love when they are in love. If you are lovelorn, you should treat it correctly, without revenge, hurting each other, giving up, sinking, and thinking about it.
Let children put their minds right and establish a correct view of love.
Summary: It is not puppy love for children to fall in love in college. Parents need not be nervous. Educate children to establish a correct view of love, don't indulge in love and affect their studies, and be responsible for themselves and others.