Recently, I also read many articles about college life and employment graduation. The most discussed is the difference between famous schools and non-famous schools. I think the exam is over before I pass it, because of my personal talent and previous diligence. The most important thing is not to waste the next college time.
The purpose of going to college is far more than just achieving a career. University life itself is a stage of life, which should be the most beautiful and magnificent.
As a middle school student in the early 1990s, I should be able to get into a good university if I embark on the road of going to high school and going to college. In fact, although it was a rural hukou at that time, my family had moved to the county to do business, and I didn't need to jump out of the farm door as soon as possible to reduce the burden on my family. I was fifteen when I applied for technical secondary school. Although my father is a pioneering farmer, his thoughts and vision are inevitably limited.
From a realistic point of view, the choice my father gave me seems to be good. /kloc-entered the system after graduation at the age of 0/8, and has no worries about food and clothing since then. After ten years of service, I am only 27 years old with a small position. When you are less than forty years old, you have worked for twenty years, and you can enjoy three weeks' annual leave. Six years later, before I turn 50, I can apply for early retirement. This is all the "benefits" brought by missing four years of college.
I haven't been to college, which naturally limits the height I can reach. Later, some students at the same level were admitted to famous universities such as Tsinghua and Peking University, and became leaders of national key projects. Some became university teachers, while others became doctors and lawyers. They all reached a higher height than me. Occasionally I wonder if I would get along better if I went to college.
Before I was thirty-five, I also thought about going up and applying for a municipal institution or something. I'm never afraid of exams. Without exception, the recruitment brochure requires "full-time undergraduate course", which can only be sighing.
Life is different, there is nothing to regret. The narrowness of opportunities and platforms can also be changed through efforts. In fact, I also walked out of a road from the grassroots to the top. What I really regret is that there is not a warm and melodious time in my life.
At the age of eighteen, I entered the society and entered an environment beyond my mental ability. My nature makes me politically immature and sensitive to all kinds of intrigues. I can't have it both ways, but I want to keep an enterprising attitude. Students are still enjoying the romantic time in college, and I have to learn to grow up carefully in the cracks, as if I suddenly stepped into middle age from a teenager.
In the last year of technical secondary school, the girl who just had a crush on overtime soon faded away with the end of her student days. At the age of eighteen, it is too early for young people who have just entered the society to get married and start a family. It is inevitable to start dating at the age of 22 and directly point to getting married and starting a family. During this time, I have never been in love. Some people say that love without the purpose of marriage is hooliganism. In my opinion, love that begins with marriage and ends with marriage is the most perfect love. That kind of love seems to exist only when I was a student.
The depth of cultural courses in middle schools is far less than that in high schools, and specialized courses are highly targeted. My own knowledge system was really established after graduation. Local students just graduated from high school and went to universities everywhere. I haven't started dating yet, so I have plenty of time. At that stage, it became my most diligent and diligent period. Both the Chinese language and literature major and the undergraduate course of administrative management have passed the self-taught examination. I am confident that I can reach the same academic level, but I always look forward to university lectures and libraries. If we can also immerse ourselves in it for four years, the knowledge system should be more perfect and the horizon pattern will definitely be higher than now.
Now every time I travel, I will take my children around the university campus and have been to Tsinghua, Peking University, Beijing Normal University, Zhejiang University and Xiamen University. A few years ago, I had the opportunity to study in a university for a month. My favorite thing is to wander around the campus and feel the youthful state of college students.
Studying hard, enjoying love, reading widely and making friends for life are my ideal college life, but now I can only regret it in my life.