Most people go to college naturally, and everyone is in college, so they go to college.
But there are good and bad universities, 2 1 1, 985, three majors. There are also hot and cold majors, such as computer, network and archaeology, museum management and so on. Of course, people are different, conscious and poor, ideal and soy sauce. Family background is also different. Some families have backgrounds and connections, so it is easy to find a job after graduation.
To sum up, these factors lead to the different employment of college students at present. Of course, there are some objective factors. Universities are expanding their enrollment, and more and more people are coming. Some schools have unreasonable curriculum, some teachers are irresponsible, and the national economic situation is sluggish. These are all external.
Before you go to college, you must know the employment situation and major of the school. Generally speaking, most of us go to school for future jobs, except some who want to do pure scientific research.
Make plans early, understand early, and there will be less unnecessary troubles in the future, such as not being interested after going to college, changing majors, and the employment situation is not good.
As for the painful experience you mentioned, I think you should objectively analyze that person's experience and learn about the development of other people who have gone to college.
Of course, everyone has different life pursuits and different attitudes towards life. Those who have money and status are not necessarily highly educated. People's success is determined by various factors, not just academic qualifications. Many rich people I have met are junior high school students. Many successful people have low academic qualifications. But these can't deny that high education is useless. If you love reading, want to go abroad, want to be a civil servant and want to work in a state-owned enterprise, you still need the necessary education.
In short, everyone should study, which has nothing to do with academic qualifications. One comes from the school and the other from the melting pot of society. As long as you are willing to study hard and work hard, you will never make mistakes in the future.
Finally, if there are certain conditions at home, it is also a good choice to support business. But then again, there is no end to money. If the family has a certain economic foundation, why not go to university to study and expand their abilities in various aspects, such as communication, exchange, self-study and organization. Remember, in college, everyone is the same, depending on how you get along! If you live a full college life and believe in yourself, there will be great room for future development!
University is an experience and a person's growth. It's not just those scholarships for studying for exams.
Pure hands!