First of all, as an authentic hutong girl your age, welcome to Beijing to study ~
If you take the college entrance examination this year, I should be one or two years older than you, and I am a sophomore at a language university in Beijing (I won't mention my name to avoid advertising), which is what you call "a good school in Beijing". Since you said you want to go to a good school in Beijing, I should understand that your score must be enough. On this premise, let me talk to you about these questions you raised ~
Shanghai's humanities, it should be said ... I'm afraid northerners are not used to it. Let me give you an example. There is a Shanghai classmate in our class who lives in a dormitory with me, and the relationship is very good ~ but when I was a freshman, I suddenly felt alienated from me for a while. It was not until last semester that I heard another girl in the dormitory say that she had no change because she had breakfast in the morning. Although she borrowed fifty cents (you read it correctly, it was fifty cents), I forgot to return it to her. Later, she talked to my sister about it. I don't know. Maybe you will find it a little incredible, even a little fake. But I tell you, in fact, it's true. I didn't believe it at first … but of course, it's my fault. I should repay the money I borrowed. In fact, it is not only Shanghai, but also Jiangsu and Zhejiang. A buddy in high school lives in Room 6, Zhejiang University, Hangzhou. Except him, they are all from Jiangsu, Zhejiang, Shanghai and Jiangxi. As a result, every time he comes back from a holiday, he tells us how "chicken thieves" southerners are. But I want to say that you can't think that the south is a chicken thief just because there are many people; Nor can we think that northerners are generous just because they are generous. This is a cultural difference, and there is no difference between good and bad. Of course, you can't just say what people are like in this place because of individual things. After all, this kind of thing should still be a small probability event statistically ~ and even if the previous generation has great cultural differences, our post-90 s generation has a great influence on western thought, so it doesn't matter what children everywhere think.
Let's talk about Beijingers. I use your question 2 to answer this question. The biggest feature of Beijingers is tolerance. This is different from the culture in Shanghai. People in Beijing don't have that many things. Easy to get along with. But to be honest, if you only go to college in Beijing, and it is a better university, there are not many opportunities to get in touch with authentic Beijingers. Take our school as an example. I am the only Beijinger in our language … there are few other major Beijingers. Probably the proportion is not much different from other provinces. Because Beijing has the best schools in the country. However, the admission rate of Beijingers is basically the same as that of other provinces (only referring to subordinate colleges and universities, except for the first normal school, industry and commerce, first economy and trade, etc.). It's different from Shanghai, too. Take your Shandong as an example. I made a simple survey. In recent years, schools like Fudan have never recruited more than 50 students in your Shandong province. If 800,000 people in Shandong Province take the college entrance examination this year, it means that only one out of every 16000 ~ 18000 people can go to Fudan. On the other hand, the proportion of local candidates in Shanghai is roughly 70 ~ 80:1; Shanghai Jiaotong University 50~60: 1~~ Tongji University, Institute of Technology, East China Normal University, Shangcai University and Shanghai University are estimated to be almost ~ ~ better in Beijing, which actually means this. Your Shandong University and China Ocean University are also recruited by our province ~ So, in fact, it's the same everywhere ~
And to tell you the truth, my high school is the best high school in Beijing (some people say that No.4 Middle School is the best, it doesn't matter). In our school, more than 90% can basically go to school. But I can tell you responsibly that more than 20 of the 40 people in our class are first-generation or second-generation foreign "immigrants" ~ that is to say, either they and their parents came directly from other places; Either mom and dad are foreigners and stay in Beijing to work after graduation, and then the children are born in Beijing and go to our school. This kind of thing is very common in Haidian District, Peking University High School, Tsinghua High School,1kloc-0/middle school and other good schools. Because Beijing is originally an immigrant city, elites gather all over the country. Their children naturally go to school in Beijing. I have been to many classmates' homes to play. Their parents speak their hometown dialect, but their children are full of "Beijing dialect". Do you think they are from Beijing? Is it fair or not? Hehehe ~ ~ So, it doesn't matter ~
One last question. Beijing or Shanghai. Each has its own characteristics. Personally, I think the climate in Shanghai is better. Unlike Beijing, it is extremely hot in summer and extremely cold in winter (for example, now), and sand is scraped from time to time in spring and autumn ~ but Beijing is easier to integrate ~
As for schools, they are definitely the best and most in Beijing. After all, it is the capital. But Shanghai is not bad either ~ (but it depends on what you want to learn and whether your score is enough)