1. Self-study: In our life, teachers are temporary, and only self-study is a lifelong thing. Learn to teach yourself and have the motivation to learn by yourself. Give up halfway and accomplish nothing. With motivation, we can persist in self-study to the end and even find pleasure in self-study.

2. Learn to socialize: Socialization is an indispensable skill in life, and it is inevitable to deal with all kinds of people when you first enter the workplace. Many young people, because they are not polite and social, have left the impression of being "naive" or even "uneducated". ? In college, you should learn some basic social knowledge in your spare time.

3. Self-management: Without self-management, life is hard to get better. To learn self-management, you need to master the skills of self-management: first, you should have a deep understanding of yourself-not only know your strengths and weaknesses, but also know how you learn new knowledge and cooperate with others, and know what your values are, so that you can make the greatest contribution to it.

4. At the same time, learn to distinguish between ineffective and effective social interaction. Birds of a feather flock together, people are divided into groups, people have different views and abilities, and there is no friendship and cooperation. If you want to expand your social circle, you must start from yourself. Only by improving one's abilities in all aspects can one be more confident in rejecting ineffective social interaction and choosing and participating in effective social interaction. ?

5. Cultivate self-confidence: A common misunderstanding about self-confidence is that self-confidence comes from ability. If you want to have confidence, you must be very good at what you do. This is actually a wrong concept. Confidence comes from reducing your concern about other people's eyes and opinions. In other words, to become more confident, you must forget what others think of you and take it for granted.