Don't show off your merits or wealth.

Learn to take care of others and empathize with their difficulties. If you are kind to others, others may feel it and then be kind to you.

Giving charcoal in the snow is a good thing.

Learn to praise the advantages of others, tolerate their shortcomings, learn to be patient, and don't lose your temper every time.

Smile more, talk to others more, you can take the initiative and talk more, and you may get familiar with it slowly. Topics can be high school life, yearning for college life, their hobbies, or even telling jokes to others when there is no topic, and there is nothing to talk about. This is all possible.