A typical slow-heating person, and he is close to acquaintances and indifferent to strangers. People will say I'm a nice person, but I'm not easy to get in touch with, because they don't want to. I've excluded them from my friends.

You have many questions, and I will answer them one by one!

1, although I don't want to fall in love now, I am very confused. Since the purpose of making friends is not to find a boyfriend, why do I find that people without eyes become lazy?

Your purpose is not to find a boyfriend, but to find friends of the opposite sex who are like-minded and get along well with each other. If you find that there is no such opposite sex, of course you will become lazy.

2. Why do I feel that I have reservations about taking the initiative to talk to boys?

Most girls' reserve is fake, and you think it will be better to show yourself truly.

3. Why didn't any boys take the initiative to talk to me?

Didn't you find the problem? There are two kinds of women who are accosted by boys. One is beautiful and gentle. The second kind is a girl who can show herself, dressed beautifully and especially ostentatiously.

You are not the kind of person who is particularly ostentatious, of course, you will not attract the attention of boys. Even if you are beautiful, you are a cold iceberg to them, and they will flinch. You have rejected them as your friends from the bottom of your heart, which will certainly make people feel shunned.

4. Is it because you still want to meet Prince Charming?

Of course you want to meet Prince Charming in the depths of introspection. Every girl has this idea, which is normal.

5. So what channels are there to make friends with boys now?

I think you have to make friends through formal channels, such as birthday parties, class dinners, and friends taking you to your hometown party. In a word, friendship is unreliable. Those games of honesty, courage and adventure are to see who is more romantic. Confess the next day. Don't you want to think about it? Do they know each other? Confession is actually not for a physical desire!

You can go to friends' birthday parties more often and meet some people. This channel is very formal.

There are also some interest clubs in schools and interest training classes outside schools, which are good ways to make like-minded friends.

Boys talk to girls, not about looks, but about whether girls are crazy. They can shift their attraction and vision to girls who can express themselves well. Cheerful, lively, passionate, hot and sexy.

Your personality may be a little cold, so there will be no boys chatting up you.

It's actually quite good. Boys like those girls because they are casual and can talk and chat at will. Similarly, some men will feel that they are easy to get in touch with and pick up girls easily.

Your personality can be regarded as the other side to protect you from boys with bad ideas.