When two young men and women just fall in love, they will try their best to show their good side and deliberately create a romantic and warm atmosphere. But once we live together, some shortcomings in each other will be exposed, and we will suddenly find that he and she are not so perfect.
If you can't have enough tolerance and understanding, if you still fantasize about romantic love every day, if you can't keep your feet on the ground in the real life of daily necessities, if you don't have the same hobbies and pursuits. Then it is almost inevitable that feelings will fade.
In this social reality of more men and fewer women, in the current social atmosphere. Boys always try their best to please girls when they are in love, but once they have a substantive relationship, they live together. Boys' previous passion will fade a lot.
On the one hand, he thinks he has got it and will not deliberately lower himself; On the other hand, under the pressure of real life, boys may not be as generous as before, so girls are not used to it. If two people have conflicts, they will definitely dilute their feelings.
The essence of love is to understand each other and live hand in hand. The passion and romance in love will eventually retreat, and finally everything will be dull, which is inevitable. But the dullness of life is not the desalination of love, but the process that both love and marriage have to go through.
Ordinary people's lives, the more plain they see the truth, simply can't tolerate too many affairs. People who deliberately pursue romantic love often give up halfway. As long as you can keep the bottom line of love, life is dull, but it is also interesting. Only in this way can we be the most authentic and reliable love, and we can stay together for life and grow old together.