I think it is common to feel lonely in college. There is no need to worry about loneliness. In fact, many people will fall into loneliness. If they don't understand and can't get out, such emotions will affect your daily life, which is not worth the loss. Therefore, in college, we should learn to adjust our mentality and learn to comfort ourselves. After all, everyone is too busy to care about your emotions, and in college.

Usually, people who feel lonely in college are introverts. Because of various factors, they tend to be withdrawn and sentimental, so they will be more restrained in interpersonal communication. Many things will be digested by themselves, rather than shared with others. There is another kind of people who like to pursue perfection and feel lonely more easily, because they have been pursuing perfection, but they can't accept failure. Once they fail, they will feel lonely.

Lonely people are often afraid of failure, because failure will bring them into a greater vortex of loneliness. They often blame themselves for this failure, and feel self-blame or even fear for some of their actions. They are easy to fall into self-blame, and they are often pessimistic, thinking that failure once will continue. These are all signs of self-distrust.

We all miss those beautiful memories, which is human nature, but lonely people will infinitely recall those beautiful memories and immerse themselves in the past in an attempt to escape the loneliness of the present, but our life is in the present, and what has passed can only be the past, and we can only recall but not indulge. In fact, negative thoughts will affect our lives, but as long as we find them in time, adjust our mentality in time, face them with a positive and optimistic attitude, stick to what we think is right and pursue what we want, we believe that loneliness will become indifferent.