Many people say that the purpose of university class dinners and party activities is to enhance the feelings between class students and make the class more United. Sometimes class dinners are held, but this one doesn't and that one doesn't. It's boring and a waste of time and money. Then you talk about class with others, and you say, alas, my class is so scattered now that it is not United at all. People may immediately say, look at you, there must have been too few class activities before, and everyone was unfamiliar with them, so the class was so scattered. This statement seems very reasonable, because there are few class dinners, so the class cohesion is not enough, they are unfamiliar with each other and the class is not United. Therefore, as a class committee, we should seize the time to organize more class activities so that everyone can get together and enhance their feelings. But is this really the case?

First of all, let's look at the significance of college classroom composition. Is this so-called collective goal consistent? Can this group bring motivation to its members? No, a university is a place where people can develop freely and choose freely. Different students have different goals, and some choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination; Some choose community organizations; Some choose to work part-time to make money. The students in the college class and the members of the company are not fighting for the same goal, even worse than the high school class. At least the goal of Class Three in Senior High School is to improve their grades and meet the college entrance examination. Do you think the relationship between high school students is better or that between college students is better? It must be that high school students have better feelings and are more United with each other. So when you are busy reading books and brushing questions all day in high school, have you ever thought about what kind of class dinner activities to use to improve cohesion? Not at all.

I quite agree with the idea of cultivating collective cohesion and interpersonal feelings in daily life. That is, you and I have the same interests, hit it off, and then get to know each other more and more, and the natural collective will be more United. In other words, it is because everyone has a good relationship and the class is very United. Everyone wants to have a meal together, or go out for a trip together, so the class has a dinner. It is not because putting a group together for dinner and various activities can enhance everyone's feelings and make the group more United. When you need to take pains to organize an activity for this group, but no one is willing to respond or support you, the group has long since dispersed, and there is no need to take pains for the so-called cohesion and affection among members. Everyone usually has classes in the same classroom, and students in different dormitories in the same class just sit in the same row but don't even talk; Everyone usually lives in the dormitory next door, but people who have never seen this dormitory say a word with the people in the dormitory next door; Even five people who usually live in the same dormitory have two different circles. Not everyone has contradictions, and they are really unfamiliar. It's nothing. People have different personalities, hobbies and growing environments. Everyone has his own circle and lifestyle, and there is no common goal. There are not many natural intersections, so they are not familiar. Everyone just happens to be assigned to the same class in the same major, so there is nothing wrong with living a good life. Why do we have to have dinner to enhance our feelings?