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04 male college students
This requires "breaking the ice"

The atmosphere in a dormitory is really bad, especially those three neutral students. They will feel that neither side is human, and sometimes even more embarrassed than you.

In fact, I don't think you can just boil down the problem to "because you only know how to study and don't like to play". In fact, I think this is only a small reason. What's more, they don't know whether or not to invite you. Plus your little response, they think you don't want to be with them. Even if they sometimes want to ask you out to play, they may not talk about it, and they may be afraid of being rejected by you, which will make them lose face. More tragically, they are afraid of making enemies accidentally.

I think the most important thing to solve this situation is that you take a step. You can take the initiative to invite them out to play basketball. I think it is easier for boys to solve conflicts than girls. I believe that as long as you are willing to take the initiative, this relationship should be eased.

Don't be afraid and don't say "why". A lot of things are not clear. People always say that if there is a humorous person in a dormitory, it is because they sometimes try to act as a lubricant, although sometimes they are accidentally hurt all over.

Try to integrate yourself and take the initiative.

If you really don't want to, change the dormitory, otherwise everyone in your dormitory will have a big mental illness and feel uncomfortable living in the dormitory.