In the era of knowledge payment, many people blindly mistakenly think that it will be easy to enter the university. As long as you enter the university, you will have a stable job in the future; As long as you enter the university, you will be separated from your peers in an instant. Unlike others, the world is brighter. As long as you enter the university, you will have a favorite person who can do what you like, and happiness seems to be just around the corner. If your life still stays in the description and vision of your predecessors, it can only show that you are too naive.
Reading doesn't mean having everything, especially in this era of information flooding. How much knowledge we have learned does not mean how much cash we have, especially in the face of hunger, poverty, disease and so on. Maybe what we have learned is worthless.
Four years in college, these things may ruin your life:
(A) resigned, forcing yourself to learn a major you don't like.
Although there are many college students everywhere now, the threshold for entering the university is still so congested and the competition is still cruel. It can be said that thousands of troops crossed the wooden bridge. University is different from nine-year compulsory education, and not everyone can attend it. It is precisely because of this that when you are admitted to a major you don't like in the university, the good people around you will stand on the commanding heights that are good for you, giving you all kinds of difficulties in entering the university, so that you can face the reality frankly and enter the university first and then take a long-term view. Sure enough, in the face of comprehensive factors such as strength, family education and peer pressure, you still gave in and chose to study a reluctant major.
On the first day of college, your teacher told you that life depends on self-cultivation and hard work, and your major now is not necessarily related to your career in the future. Then I gave you many related cases. You have never seen the world, believe it with the eyes of a countryman, because you firmly believe that the teacher will not lie to you. Most people choose a road leading to darkness, and a few people escape in time for various reasons. In this way, you learn the professional knowledge you don't like every day, and you have spent four years in a daze facing the problems you can't understand all your life.
When I applied for the job, I burst into tears and cried in a big mess. Then you realized that you were wrong, and we were all cheated. Those students who found the right person at the beginning have made a lot of good achievements during their four years in college, some of them are the shoulders of their subjects, and some have had very good life experiences at a young age. Because I like it, I am willing to spend time and energy thinking about what I like. As for you, from the beginning, you have been holding a perfunctory and muddled attitude. Anyway, studying is easy and not as tiring as the college entrance examination, so let it be. In four years, you became a copier in your class work. You frown and listen to things you don't like every day. You have passed every exam and become an ordinary person among ordinary people.
When others interview, you can tell your four years in minutes, win applause and successfully get a satisfactory offer；; When it's your turn to go on stage, you're still a little ashamed, just prevaricating and panicking, not exaggerating. Only then did I regret it and realize that I was wrong, but it was too late.
(b) Struggle at the age when you should choose ease most.
When you enter the university, you will not be as vicious as you were in the college entrance examination. Many things are not impossible as long as you work hard a little, but you don't even have the courage and significance to work hard, which leads to many opportunities being lost in vain. You finally became the protagonist in that fable, with a big cake hanging around your neck. If you can starve to death, you will starve to death.
Looking at the little lovers wandering on campus, you envy your tepid feelings; Looking at those gorgeous pictures on the screen, I am fascinated by the game when I am idle; There will always be things that can't be done tomorrow, but they are all things that have nothing to do with study. Four years later, maybe you get what you want and get a beautiful woman again. Maybe graduation season is breakup season for you. People in the game world have finally become kings. After graduation, friends of the same age are thinking about how to earn 50 thousand a month, but you are still running around looking for a job. There is already a great god in the electric competition. Although you play well, you are not the best. For a moment, you seem to have grown up, but unfortunately you can't go back.
(C) born at an inopportune time, taciturn in the big environment
For a long time, the Internet, TV and newspapers have been filled with the problem that it is difficult for famous agricultural workers to ask for wages, which has successfully attracted people and made everyone think that the problem is probably due to the low general education level and lack of awareness of rights protection. In fact, it is only a phenomenon in this society that farmers ... migrant workers have difficulty in asking for wages, and another emerging phenomenon has gradually entered people's field of vision, that is, deducting students' wages for no reason. In today's difficult employment, there are related reports every year, and how many tens of thousands of college students are facing employment problems. Every year, the state issues relevant policies to solve the employment problem. This phenomenon is very common for many enterprises.
On the one hand, many enterprises talk about how people born after 1995 are selfish and have no team and collective consciousness; On the one hand, they all like people born after 1995 when recruiting. This generation is generally highly educated, learning many new things quickly, and the most important thing is to be able to exercise. You only need one or two thousand yuan a month to create several times the value for the company. Who doesn't like it? As for resignation, no one took over, and so on, that is even more ridiculous, how many cheap labor schools have to transport every year. The average person's battery life is about half a year. By the time you want to resign, the freshmen will soon graduate.
At present, many schools engage in "internship" and "probation" and formalism, turning students into "student workers" who seek benefits. What is a "student worker"? Its work intensity and overtime hours are no different from those of workers recruited by the society. The only difference is that they have to give some money from their salary to schools or intermediaries. Faced with this kind of "internship", students themselves have no choice. In some schools, if students refuse to practice, they won't get a diploma. Many vocational schools can't broaden students' career and life opportunities, but they become labor intermediaries, reselling students to factories and squeezing student workers under the guise of "internship"?
Nevertheless, there is always nothing wrong with learning. Learning can make you clear your mind, let you see some places that others can't see, improve your happiness and give you the right to choose your own life. University is a time to increase knowledge and experience. Remember not to let these things ruin you.
Write at the end:
This is the best time, this is the worst time; This is an era of wisdom, this is an era of stupidity; This is a bright season, this is a dark season; This is the spring of hope, this is the winter of disappointment; There is everything in front of people, and there is nothing in front of people; Man is on his way to heaven, and man is on his way to the gate of hell.