College students are generally over eighteen, and they are adults, right? People with civil capacity should be responsible for their own actions, and others have no right to interfere and can't say "no". In foreign countries, parents have completed their tasks by raising their children until they are eight years old. All the living expenses are earned by themselves, and parents no longer interfere in their lives. In China, he is obviously an adult, but in the eyes of teachers and parents, he always feels like a child, and he always wants to take care of himself if he is not at ease.
As an adult, I am responsible for my own affairs. As parents and teachers, don't interfere too much, and the result of interference is more rebellious. As parents, we must first learn to let go. Children are born to you and people in society. School is a university, and society is a bigger university. What you can learn in college can also be learned in society, and what you can't learn in college can also be learned in society. What we think is abnormal is pure and normal in the eyes of children? There are some things that only you can deeply feel and never forget.
It's normal to fall in love in college and be an adult. Because love is a normal physiological and psychological need, only abnormal people don't understand love and marriage. Love is the most beautiful emotion in the world, so don't look at it with colored eyes. After retiring for 20 years, at the age of love seeds, everyone who doesn't want to have a love, or wishful thinking, has not forgotten it until now, and has his own regrets, not to mention the development of society. Today's young people mature earlier and have more knowledge than in the past.
When you are young, you may kiss and hug, or you may lose control of yourself and live together. As long as the two sides really love each other, why not? Nowadays, the marriage of college students does not affect their studies. It may be that men and women in love rent a house and live together outside in order not to affect the atmosphere and normal life of the campus. Cohabitation may not have a marriage certificate, but it may be recognized by both parties. It is best to have a marriage registration, because cohabitation without a marriage certificate is not protected by law.
Some problems that should be paid attention to in college love and cohabitation. First, we should seize the time to study and not delay our studies. If we fail or fail the make-up exam, we may not get the diploma. Without a diploma, it will bring unexpected troubles to our future life and work. The second is to arrange the time reasonably, with the goal of learning.
University study time should still be mainly academic, and universities are not yet independent economically. If marriage and cohabitation do not have a certain economic foundation, it is likely to be a long-term thing. No matter what you do, you should think twice before you act. Don't do things that you regret, and don't bring harm to the people you like.