As a girl who has just entered the first grade, how much courage does it take to tell her parents about her love? You know, children often tell you this thing, and the ultimate goal is not to think that you are scolding yourself, or that you think she is too hasty. Just because she thinks you are her parents, she wants to share such a thing with you. She wants everyone's blessing, but she also wants some advice from you.
Therefore, if you look dignified or have a rich tone, you can cause psychological stress to your daughter. When one day you really encounter this kind of thing, I ask you not to resist in a hurry, but to listen carefully to your daughter first.
(2) Try to convey some correct views on love to your daughter. When a daughter is in love, she will often meet boys after confirmation. In that case, the tryst period will inevitably involve eating, watching TV dramas, shopping and a series of things. As parents of girls, we should tell our daughters not to have too much money to do with boys. He invited you to eat this meal and asked you to pay it back next time.
On holidays or anniversaries, he gives you gifts, and you should also give some indication. If it is definitely an expensive gift, don't accept it, and usually don't show your thoughts about what you want to buy in front of the other party. What is the correct requirement? You can tell your parents completely not to have too much money trouble with each other.
Another example: learn to protect yourself and do a good job of contraception, because pregnancy can only hurt girls in this period, and there is no accident. There are naturally many moral bottom lines and principles in dealing with people, such as not alienating others' feelings and not hurting people in other families who don't want to step on more boats.
(3) Tell your daughter that character is more important than appearance. What kind of people are they? What's your character like? What do people around you say about him? Maybe you know nothing about his mastery except his handsome appearance?
I have a high school female classmate who was admitted to the same college as me. From the first year of high school, he talked about a boyfriend. The other one is not very tall and fat, but it is really good for her. They loved each other until they went to college.
In his junior year, the student cadres of the school launched a fierce pursuit of him. She had a hard time in those days. On the one hand, she is a boyfriend who seems to be very good to herself, on the other hand, she is a particularly handsome suitor who cares about herself. She doesn't know how to choose, which makes her miserable.
Finally, under the persuasion of friends, the pursuit of student cadres was rejected. But on the third day after he refused the other party, he realized that the other party was actually a philandering man, even a girl who was still pursuing other departments on the premise of pursuing her.
Be sure to tell your daughter that the handsome appearance of a boy may be a plus item in your heart, but what is more reliable than the handsome appearance is actually personality!