A person doesn't even have his own money. You are neither a Buddha nor a Bodhisattva. Are you going to sell your kidneys to help the whole society? Only when people are rich can they help others. But this kind of help is not blind, but also selective. For example, the other party is a gambler himself, and when he asks you for money, he says all the good things and bad things. If you can't stand it, lend money to others. Do you think you can get this money back? You should use your mind in everything. Not everyone in this society can think from your point of view, and everyone is not your parents and will not harm you. Sometimes you sell iron to help others, and others take you for granted and won't take you seriously. Borrowing money is not charity, so we must consider the consequences, otherwise it will be difficult for the money to come back when it goes out. Just like the fiery debt collection screenshot on WeChat, it is obvious that you kindly lend it to others for a period of time, and people just don't give it to you now under various excuses. This kind of person had better not even be friends. This is dishonest.