The proprietress croaked there with an angry expression, her hands rested on her hips, and said loudly that my child's grades were not good, and the teacher must have failed to teach him well. Isn't that the teacher's problem? Do I have to be taught by my parents If I can teach, what do I need a teacher for? Don't teachers get paid? He should do it well when he gets paid. The current teacher is really arrogant and irresponsible at all.
The male boss on the other side went on to say, yes. Now this society is like this. With such a high salary and holidays, teachers don't teach children seriously at all. Hey, my child is in primary school now, and I can't understand my homework. I can't tutor him, and I don't have a degree. How can a teacher not teach those children anything? So what do we go to school to learn? This is a waste of time.
I smiled and told the two bosses, is the child our own? The male boss immediately said, well, yes, the child is indeed his own. I said that since the child is your own, think about it. You are a child. Sometimes parents will go crazy when teaching, but you can't coach. What if a teacher wants to teach dozens of students? The same teacher teaches, why can some children be admitted to Tsinghua Peking University and many good universities, while others can't be admitted to universities at all? I can't say that this is all the responsibility of teachers, and parents should teach their children more.
The female boss shouted there again, alas, I think people are quite arrogant. The point is that the pork vendor has a knife in his hand. Hey, I just don't want to argue with her and leave.
This reminds me of a friend. Her children are boys in grade three, and they are spoiled at home. At school, she didn't perform very well in all aspects, and she also had problems communicating with teachers. So her grades have been poor. Parents often have great opinions, saying that teachers don't pay attention to children and put their seats behind them, saying that his grades are so poor. The teacher hasn't taught the children much, and the relationship with the teacher is very tense. Finally, I had a big fight and transferred to another school.
After the transfer, the children's grades are still not good, and the relationship between parents and teachers is very tense. As a result, the school now tells him that if he transfers to another school, he will not be able to continue studying in this class.
He was very upset because he didn't read any books, didn't understand the problem of children's education, and didn't think that children should teach by themselves. He thought that children would grow up casually. So now the child's personality has become very strange and can't adapt to the collective life of this school. He must be praised every day without any criticism. I can only drop out of school and stay at home, but I don't know how to teach him. What can you do without reading at this age? Such ignorant parents have actually harmed their children.
And my neighbor, the education of children has also gone through detours. In the past, children were naughty, didn't study hard and often got into trouble, so teachers often called their parents. At first, as a parent, he was very unhappy. He feels that the teacher doesn't like his children. He is very angry because he goes to parents for small things and often criticizes children.
Seeing this situation, I told him many times. I said you should communicate with the teacher more. How is the child doing at school? Many children are completely different at home and at school. Talk to your child more at home, what problems you encounter in your study, why you often get into trouble at school, what your child thinks, and so on.
Then I analyzed it with him. I found a very serious problem. As a parent, he had an unpleasant experience when he was studying, and his communication with the teacher was not very smooth, so he left some shadows in his heart. When chatting with children, he often shows lack of respect for teachers. That unpleasant experience had a bad influence on her, and he was a little dismissive of his former teacher. This attitude has a direct impact on his children now, so his children don't respect their teachers enough. Therefore, I said that children's problems are ultimately parents' problems, and children's problems are also parents' problems.
It is necessary to educate children to respect teachers, cooperate with teachers' work and work together with teachers in order to do well in their studies. Parents are irresponsible. You give up your children and leave them alone. Then why do you ask teachers to be responsible for your children? Children are unique to you, but only a few tenths of them are in the class.
Later, I went with him to communicate with the teacher several times and told the children to respect the teacher. Therefore, in the later period, the communication between parents and teachers will be smoother, which will have a positive impact on children. Slowly, children's academic performance will be improved in all aspects, and parents will finally understand that they have done something wrong and deeply reflect on themselves.
Therefore, I believe that parents will always be their children's teachers. The greatest success of parents is to teach their children well. Children will develop good habits in all aspects and will be at home in school. Respecting teachers and attaching importance to teaching is a fine tradition of our Chinese nation. As parents, we must respect and understand teachers, and then your children will respect teachers, so that their study and morality will be good. Don't put all the children's problems on the teacher. Parents and teachers should take responsibility and work together to teach their children well.