First, if you are always chasing each other in love, you will eventually quarrel because of values and other issues.

Both parties in love are independent individuals. Doesn't mean complete independence. After all, we need to understand each other, but we are independent in personality, but we need to be interdependent.

Both sides keep growing, make progress together, strive for the future of * * *, and are willing to pay attention to each other's lives at all times. This is love.

High-quality love will make people progress together and will be willing to consider all aspects of future development.

Naive love will only consider the current passion and selectively ignore each other's future and growth.

Second, for college students who have just left campus, it is important to fight for their careers, but a beautiful love can make two people cheer each other up and stimulate the motivation of work. Life is multifaceted. Family, society, life and marriage can go hand in hand, which is a complete life. In fact, the main reason why young people feel that marriage and entrepreneurship are contradictory is time. As long as the time relationship is well balanced and what kind of things are done at what age, love will often become a help at work.

Third, even if you have a successful career and then fall in love and get married, you will face various career and emotional problems. Life, work and study are accompanied by everyone's life. Good love should be two people together, become excellent together, make progress together, and achieve career success together.

Marriage is directional, and knowing what kind of partner is more suitable for you is the key to marriage "planting trees to prevent waterlogging". "The idea of passively waiting for love when stepping on watermelon skin is not desirable.