No matter in high school or college, living with roommates every day, just like teeth, will inevitably have friction, so it is also a necessary lesson to deal with the relationship between roommates. If there is a contradiction between roommates, how should we solve it?

Communication with roommates.

Once you have a conflict with your roommate, you should resolve it in time, otherwise the conflict will get deeper and deeper after a long time, and the relationship between roommates may be irreparable. If you have a conflict with your roommate, you should calm down and communicate with her well, solve the problem, and have a sincere talk with the other party to resolve the conflict, instead of burying your grievances in your heart. In the end, you will suffer, and the relationship between roommates will become particularly embarrassing. In fact, sometimes it's better to fight each other than not to talk.

2. Know your own shortcomings and correct them.

Universities will meet all kinds of people, so we can't ask others to agree with our ideas and meet our standards. When there are contradictions in the dormitory, we should review ourselves, find out our shortcomings and control our temper. Dormitory is a collective, and everyone's personality is different. We should learn to tolerate others and accept their shortcomings. And roommates will not tolerate all our shortcomings like parents, so we should know our own shortcomings.

If you really find it difficult to communicate with your roommates, you can change your dormitory.

I think for those roommates who quarrel and say nothing, there is no need to make themselves unhappy for her, and it is also uncomfortable to bow their heads and not see anyone every day. It is better to move out of the dormitory directly, which will make them feel better. In fact, changing dormitories has advantages and disadvantages, but getting along with a roommate with a different personality every day is simply a torment. Even if it is embarrassing to see the new dormitory and former roommate on campus, it is better to change the dormitory. I can imagine how uncomfortable it is to live under the same roof with my roommates who are in conflict every day, and the quality of life has also been affected to some extent.

Therefore, if you have a contradiction with your roommate, you must find a way to solve it, otherwise it will be as serious as a volcanic eruption if it is shelved for a long time. Dealing with interpersonal relationships is also something we must learn in life, because we will meet more people when we enter the society, and we need to adapt ourselves slowly.