Once vowed: "This is my choice." I scoffed at my family's nervousness, and now I understand what my family thought at that time. What kind of university, city and major you choose will make you meet completely different people in the future. What an amazing and important choice, the only thing that can be compared with it is your birth.
What kind of family you are born in is beyond your control. College is your life.
I admit that if I had chosen a university in Beijing instead of a remote university in the northwest, I would have met completely different people and lived a completely different life, but I also believe that everything is the best choice. All roads lead to Rome, and different starting points will eventually reach the same destination.
Just like even if I go to college in Beijing, I believe I will pick up my brush again, practice calligraphy every day, secretly dance clumsily in the room and write down my thoughts here.
Time is a wonderful thing, which will gradually dilute the great changes brought about by a choice. No matter where you are, you are in control of your life now, and you can still be the person you like.
I believe everything is the best arrangement.