In the ever-changing era, young people with increasingly fashionable ideas are getting farther and farther away from the older generation in their views on marriage and love. Some people yearn for platonic love and advocate naked marriage; Some people pursue material life and think that "it is better to marry well than to do well". The discussion about whether marriage needs a material foundation is like a picture that has existed for a long time, and it will add some ink every once in a while.

With social changes, economic factors are increasingly embedded in social life, and marriage is no exception. In the consumer society, no matter the poor or the rich, they can't get and enjoy the "simple" and "pure" emotional life. In commercialization, people gradually lose the ability to express their feelings, because all means are materialized and commercialized. Regardless of the house and car, which is free, watching movies, eating and giving holiday gifts? It can be seen that romantic love is inseparable from the support of money.

Tong Xin, a famous female scholar and professor of Peking University, has a wonderful expression when talking about the problem of "leftover women": "The reason why leftover women are" leftover "is not because they are not good enough, but because their emotional needs are too beautiful to be commercialized." When love cannot be commercialized, their fate can only be belittled and laughed at. In contrast, some women try to "change their fate through marriage", "cast a net to fish" and participate in various blind date activities. A few days ago, at a "rich blind date" in Chengdu, Sichuan, a woman took part without telling her boyfriend. After being caught by the polygraph, the woman was embarrassed to admit that she was just "coming to see".

Judging from past experience, it is often not advisable to pay too much attention to or ignore one end in the balance of matter and emotion. How to achieve the balance between material and emotion, and how to achieve the balance between psychological expectation and behavioral ability is a realistic topic for every single man and woman. At present, the popular "semi-naked marriage" among some young people provides a marriage and love sample worth learning.