I paid more than 6 thousand tuition and accommodation fees at the beginning of school, and made a little plan for the average living expenses of about 4 thousand a month. I get 4000 standard flowers every month. As a result, I often exceed my budget, because I will buy more clothes and sports shoes when I travel, and I often go out to play and eat with my friends.
I remember last year's Double Eleven to New Year's Day, I spent money secretly. First, Double Eleven bought nearly 7,000 pieces of clothes and shoes, and then spent more than 6,000 yuan to find a girlfriend from Xiamen to Ann.
At the end of the year, I caught up with many parties, such as class reunion, community reunion, student union reunion, basketball team reunion and fellow villagers reunion. Many friends spent 3000 yuan on parties, about 2000 yuan on daily life, and a group of young people who came to Xiamen to see me and receive them spent more than 2000 yuan.
I was scared when I settled accounts at the end of the year. I went out for more than 30 thousand in just one semester.
In the second semester, I simply took out 50 thousand, borrowed 30 thousand from several college students to do business, and got tens of thousands of school business incubation funds. Fortunately, when the store opened, I found a way to make a lot of money a month, otherwise I would have died.
Netizen 2:
I graduated from college and am now a graduate student. Whether you are poor or not, I don't think you are poor. Let's just say that you want to cultivate your child's financial ability.
Ok, then four years is 200 thousand, 50 thousand a year, and my tuition is 4000 I don't know about your child's, just consider it 4000 yuan. Then the living expenses are 46,000 yuan a year, that is, I stayed at school for 10 months, and the pocket money for one month is 4,600 yuan.
Generally, the living expenses of 2000 yuan a month are very high. In addition, you should judge according to the child's previous situation and see what kind of child he is.
200 thousand, if he can't plan and spend it in a short time, make him realize the importance of financial management, maybe the price of 200 thousand is worth it for you, which is noncommittal.
The next thing I want to say is the most important thing: he is out alone, holding a huge amount of money in his hand, and it is no problem to spend money. What if he fails in school? 200 thousand just pushed him to the abyss, and the next price may not be 200 thousand!
Therefore, some parents do have money, but their children are not necessarily reliable. They think it doesn't matter if they spend 200 thousand yuan on their children at once, even if they don't control it.
But what they don't know is that it's not about money anymore. Children spend this huge sum of money in a short time, and most of them don't behave well in school, which may ruin your children.
Netizen 3:
I think it depends on someone. Some people can spend money in moderation, while others can't do it without the concept of money.
Just like if my sister gives my niece 200,000 yuan at a time, my niece dares to spend it in two months, and she has developed the habit of being extravagant since she was a child.
So now that my niece is in college, my sister hopes that she can be frugal and give her 1000 a month and 500 more for clothes when the season changes.
For my niece's consumption, it is far from enough, because when she is at home, she spends thousands of dollars every month, and now she has to 1000 for food and daily necessities.
One-time payment of 200,000 yuan may be the only deposit that parents have worked hard for decades for many college students from rural areas.
Therefore, if you have money, you can give a little more every month, or if you feel that your child's self-control ability is not good, you can give a little less, let her know that it is not easy to make money, let her do a part-time job herself, and appreciate the hardships of parents making money.
Netizen 4:
In fact, you can try to give him 50 thousand a year first to see if he can arrange it reasonably.
If this 50,000 yuan can be reasonably arranged, I believe that the remaining150,000 yuan can also be reasonably arranged. As for whether this150,000 yuan can be arranged and used well, no one can say for sure.
Life is ever changing, and anything can happen. It can only be said that if this150,000 Hua Cuo goes to a place, it is equivalent to buying an expensive lesson, which will have an immeasurable impact and change on his later life.
If the child is kind by nature, I believe that the influence will be beneficial.
Besides, you can also make an agreement from the beginning of giving him money. If you spend half of the money, you won't care whether he is a student loan or a work-study program, and you won't give him financial support until he finishes his studies.
I used to do the same to my children. As a result, he actually took the stock market and lost half a year. I was so angry that I told him to earn his own living and take a part-time job.
Fortunately, my child's heart is still good and has not deteriorated. Then he used the remaining tens of thousands of dollars to start a courier business with his classmates at school, and earned 6,543,800 yuan before graduation.
Netizen 5:
It depends on the quality of your son. If your son knows how to arrange expenses reasonably, he can cultivate his financial management concept and independent consumption ability, but there are not many such children now.
So I'll give it to you if I have money, but don't expect it to take four years. According to the consumption concept of young people now, can you put money in your pocket? I have no money to repay the loan.
After four years of college, I can't give my children living expenses on a monthly basis. Not much a day, not much a day. Sometimes I want to be more, for fear that he will not be contained. There will be more festivals or something, because eating with classmates or something.
I once tried to give my son a semester's living expenses to arrange for himself, which was enough according to the previous standards.
However, a month before the holiday, I called to complain that the poor were going to eat dirt. If I can't be angry any more, I'll pay for his meal and his ticket home.
As far as he is concerned, he has enough money in his hand, so he spends money lavishly, without restraint and plan, and then I resumed the practice of 1 month 1 day.
So later, I felt that no matter how good the family was, it would cost the children money.
In recent years, universities have been a transition from students to jobs. It is very important to cultivate his values of hard-working, unpretentious and distinguishing right from wrong.
If you give him more money, he will develop the bad habit of wasting money without making progress, which will really harm the child's life!
Netizen 6:
It depends. If children's self-care ability and economic management ability are cultivated from an early age, college life will be completely good.
But to tell the truth, most students can do nothing but study, and what's worse, they can only pick up girls and play games, let alone college students. Many young people can't take care of themselves after graduation, and they have to rely on their parents to take care of them when they get married and have children.
They can't do housework, cook, have no career plan, have no economic plan, and can't manage their health.
So the result is basically like this. Children with 0.2 million/200 thousand first buy luxury goods, the latest computers, mobile phones, digital products or brand-name clothes, bags and cosmetics, and then eat, drink and have fun with their classmates.
Those who are better will plan their tuition and living expenses, and those who have no self-control will squander them in a short time.
I really don't take the current students too seriously, otherwise how could so many students fall into the pit of naked loan usury?