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My daughter is going to college this year, and she usually doesn't wash clothes and cook. Is it appropriate for me to accompany her?
I don't think my daughter should accompany her when she goes to college. If she doesn't usually do laundry and cook, she can learn to do it slowly in college. Moreover, universities have canteens, and children can't always specialize. I didn't know how to cook and wash clothes when I was in college, but I gradually learned it. When a child grows up, he has to learn something by himself, and his parents can't accompany him all his life, so it's best to let him be independent as soon as possible. If he can cook by himself, he can cook by himself in his later work. Eating out is unsanitary and harmful to health. If he can't cook by himself and always eats out, his health will be greatly affected. When I was in college, I mentioned that there was a girl whose mother helped her with almost everything, including washing clothes and making the bed. But with his mother gone, my classmate can do something by himself, so parents always feel that their children can't do without themselves. When they really leave, they will find that their children can actually do anything. Don't always worry that children can't do anything well. If parents always treat their children like this, children will gradually feel a little burden. Because he will feel that his parents have arranged everything for him, he will have no decision-making power and will gradually want to escape. Some people say that distance produces beauty. I think this sentence is not only used in Listening in Love, but also used to give children some proper space to do something by themselves. Slowly, you will find that your children are actually excellent. In my opinion, there are many outstanding people in the society now, but most outstanding people have one thing in common, that is, they can do everything well, and these people are particularly decisive. The only thing parents can do for them is to let them choose what they like instead of following them all the time.