(1) Respect others. No matter how humble the identity of the person you associate with, how obscene the image is, how strange the words and deeds are, and how unacceptable the hobbies are, you can always respect him and be equal to you, and you will gain his respect for you. In interpersonal communication, always remind yourself, hint at yourself, treat others equally, and be good at discovering the shortcomings of others, so that interpersonal communication will be smoother and less frustrated. (2) Listen and respond appropriately When communicating with others, listen carefully and give appropriate feedback and response from time to time. Listening shows respect, understanding and acceptance. Listening is also reflected in not interrupting others' conversation at will, and politely changing the topic or ending the topic when others speak aimlessly. When expressing your different opinions, you should first recognize the ideas of the parties concerned, and then put forward your own opinions politely, so as to avoid conflicts and express your opinions without hurting each other's relationship. (3) Learn to praise everyone sincerely and hope to get praise and appreciation from others. If you come from the internal and external characteristics of your classmates and give them bold praise or recognition, it will bring you a pleasant experience and draw closer to your classmates. Praise should be sincere, neither flattering nor flattering. Don't exaggerate when praising, don't be irrelevant, don't be hypocritical, don't say good things to people's faces, speak ill of people behind their backs, and don't pass on words that others accuse and slander each other, otherwise it will easily lead to conflicts between classmates. (4) learn to be tolerant and understand that people are not sages. Don't cling to other people's mistakes or even make trouble without reason. If we don't tolerate each other, answer blows with blows or resolutely oppose them, then the gap will get deeper and deeper, and interpersonal relationships will only get more and more tense, which will not be good for people and themselves, but will only increase troubles. Being strict with others means being strict with yourself, and being tolerant of others means being tolerant of yourself. Learning to forgive others can avoid many annoying disputes, and the road will get wider and wider. (5) Treat others from another angle, and avoid being self-centered, and don't do to others what you don't want. Selfishness is human instinct. In interpersonal communication, we will unconsciously think from our own perspective, first protecting our own interests, but at the same time we will hate those who sacrifice the interests of others for our own interests. Therefore, in order to be popular in interpersonal communication, we should constantly take into account the interests of others while striving for our own interests. (6) Abide by the group rules, that is, respect and care for the needs of others. Don't assume your due responsibilities and obligations because of influencing others, don't occupy others' space, disturb others' normal study and life, and take the initiative to clean and tidy up the house. (7) Be willing to care for and help others, have compassion and a sense of justice, take the initiative to help others when they need it, and lend a helping hand when others encounter difficulties and setbacks. Always give others care, help and support, so as to get help and support from others when needed. (8) Maintain the quality of independence and modesty. When dealing with people, don't follow others' advice, let alone be conceited and supercilious. Don't always argue with others. You should have your own opinions and keep a modest spirit. (9) Keep smiling When communicating with others, people who keep smiling or have their own humorous style in their words are more likely to be accepted by others. (10) Keep a positive sunshine mentality In life, it is easy for us to see the dark side of a thing or a situation, but it is important to tap its positive side and look at the problem in two ways, so as to find a solution close to reality. In real life, if someone likes us, someone will care about us and even hate us. These are normal phenomena in the real society. Don't expect yourself to be liked by everyone, because it's impossible. In interpersonal relationships, the higher the individual's expectations, the easier it is to be frustrated.