From a purely rational point of view: this matter has nothing to do with you. They were absent from class, named, criticized and deducted points, all in accordance with regulations and procedures. As a monitor, you have done your duty to check the class by name. There's nothing wrong with you. Some people don't study, don't attend classes and fail the exam. Why should the monitor earnestly beg him to study hard and then the exam is coming soon? Why did you come over and ask him if he needed psychological counseling? Come on, the monitor is human. The monitor is not paid. Don't say that the squad leader has various promotions and quotas. People have competed and worked hard, and people want to take them. Text messages from teachers, leaders, directors, etc. , is to help with the work and statistics, or afraid that others will have a bad impression on me psychologically, and the monitor is also very bitter.