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College students and roommates don't get along well. What should I do?
Mutual understanding is the most important thing. I can share some experiences:

1, everyone has their own different life time. When you go to college, you need to be as consistent as possible with other people's living habits. You can say what time to get up and go to bed in advance, don't disturb others during the break, and correct your bad habits, especially staying up late. Don't play with your mobile phone or make noise while others are sleeping, which will bring unnecessary trouble to others.

2, don't engage in small groups, it is best to treat everyone with an equal attitude, learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings, and don't always say that another roommate is not good in front of one roommate, which is not conducive to the harmony of dormitory relations;

3. Don't invade your roommate's privacy, don't tamper with his things without other people's consent, and we don't peek at other people's text messages or express delivery;

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You should know how to help each other if you are in trouble. If you need help, do your best to help your roommate. If you need help yourself, don't be afraid to ask others for help. Others will help you, but you must remember to learn to refuse some excessive demands, or it is most important to make yourself comfortable and happy.

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5. To maintain the living environment of * * *, everyone can make a duty watch in advance. We can do it together every day or in turn. Don't always mop the floor alone, don't always take out the garbage alone, but learn to share some work.

6. Learn to control your temper and solve conflicts in a reasonable way. Now that everyone is an only child, they may get used to some temper at home. But in the dormitory, you must know how to respect others. Don't take what others do for granted. Don't say things that hurt others for the sake of temporary happiness. If there are some small frictions, first of all, think about whether you have done something wrong. You can calm down and communicate in the future. Don't quarrel or quarrel because of impulse. It's normal to have contradictions. Everyone comes from all corners of the country, with different local customs, living habits and speaking styles, which will inevitably lead to contradictions. There is also a sincere enthusiasm for roommates. It is a great fate to meet thousands of miles away and stay together for life. Besides, it usually takes four years to go to college, so you will spend more than three years under one roof. Being friends and helping each other is the best relationship. Secondly, communicate with roommates more and care about them. It's not easy for everyone to go out for a long time. For example, roommates have a headache and fever, so they can take care of themselves more, which is very helpful to promote mutual relations.

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7. Hygiene includes personal hygiene and dormitory hygiene. Dormitories are small in nature. Usually there are at least four people in a dormitory. If your dirty clothes and socks are not cleaned in time, and the garbage after meals and snacks is not thrown away in time, it is easy to produce odor. Over time, it may affect everyone's health and leave a sloppy impression on roommates, which is not conducive to our future exchanges. Therefore, we should always pay attention to personal hygiene, and dormitory hygiene should be done by Qi Xin in turn.