How do children who have just entered the university feel? Do they feel distressed when they are surrounded by novelty? When you start to worry about yourself who has never been far away from home, can you quickly adapt to the fast-paced life in college? Don't you have good friends to make friends with? Worried about whether you can handle the relationship with your roommates? Of course, I have experienced all kinds of things before I can stand here and express my views on college life.

So, what I want to say is that college life is a personal trip. At first, I was afraid that I didn't fit in with my roommates, that I couldn't fit into their circle, and even that I was "isolated", so I began to pay attention to the love beans they talked about and tried to find a topic to make myself one of them, so as not to look like them. However, looking back at my former self, I feel that I am a buffoon, and everything I do seems to be grandstanding. What's the point? Later, I figured it out, don't blend into the circle that I can't blend in. After all, like-minded people will see the same scenery. In the long journey of life, we have to endure loneliness, because loneliness is a normal state.

In college, you should get used to eating alone and reading alone, and you should get used to facing difficulties and solving problems alone. Because in the world of adults, no one will give you candy when you are frustrated and sad. Everyone is busy with his own life. All you have to do is learn to heal yourself, learn to endure loneliness and learn to be alone!

When you are hesitant, confused or even helpless, please follow your heart, don't blindly follow, and live your life in a planned way. Life is your own! Remember to be yourself, because others are already doing it!