Generate distrust and suspicion.

This is the biggest taboo of long-distance love, because we can't meet often. Once you start to doubt, it is difficult to calm down, plant a time bomb and explode at any time, which greatly reduces the quality of getting along. Unconditional acceptance and trust are necessary in a relationship, so that you can feel safe, avoid unnecessary troubles, and avoid sensitive topics and behaviors.

Don't take responsibility, make trouble

In a relationship, quarreling is inevitable. Only collision can expose the problem, and it is more likely to promote emotional sublimation. However, if we don't reflect on the summary after the quarrel, or if the other side is soft in the cold war, it will only deepen the contradiction. Find the right way to deal with the contradiction between two people, seize it in time and solve it in time.

Ambiguous, aimless

In front of us, there are many notes that long-distance love needs to have a clear future plan and become a mutual belief. If you always follow the goal one step at a time, it will easily lead to insecurity on both sides, and it is also easy to be beaten when facing difficulties.

Unstable, emotional

One second is happy, the next is angry. This moodiness makes the other person worry about getting along with you, because she never knows your next reaction. Learn to digest emotions by yourself and don't add too much negative energy to this relationship.

Don't communicate, hide

Usually you hide it because you want to carry it yourself and are afraid of giving it to the other person, or you are not good at expressing it and hide your love in your heart, but both of them are obstacles to the warming of feelings in different places. Long-distance relationships can't get along closely. Video, voice and text are bridges of communication. Don't let the problem ferment out of control. Love is speaking out, letting emotions flow and nourishing sweetness. Good communication and sharing are adhesives from different places ~