Let nature take its course, no matter bad or good, because many things can't be stopped and can only be prevented. Moreover, each of us should have the ability to allow some bad things in life and allow regrets and failures in life.

You can't always ask yourself, "Why are you so unlucky?" You can't always blame yourself.

Life is like this, that is, accepting the helpless loss in the world and then moving on.

As for who is right and who is wrong, why, don't think about it.

Then the natural thing happened and passed, so let it be "everything goes with the wind, everything goes with the wind ...", then turn over this matter and don't always hold on to it.

You can reflect on yourself, learn lessons and accumulate experience, but don't chew the pain repeatedly. In this case, the pain will spread to your bones like chronic poison, let those things flow through you like rain, wash you away, and then they will merge into the sea and never come back.

Finally, accept the fact.

Many things are not so painful when they happen, but your definition and judgment on them make you more painful.

Because you can't accept this fact, you can only accept your own standards and blindly regret it. If I didn't do this and that, others shouldn't do this and that, and the more I think about it, the more entangled I am.

So accept the truth and be honest with yourself.