First of all, learn to be independent. After going to college, the biggest change for us is the living environment. Without the careful care of parents and elders, many things need to be handled by themselves, and the real independent life has begun. On the other hand, from the single-room "independent kingdom" to the collective dormitory where four people live in groups, the adaptation and running-in of this living environment and habits is really a test for me who has never lived in school.
For us, the relationship between classmates (especially the relationship with classmates in the dormitory) is a serious problem that puzzles everyone. Some freshmen will encounter such a problem when they first enter the university: in the first month after entering the university, the students in the dormitory are close and everyone's life is very uniform. In the second month, because students come from different regions and different families, there are obvious differences in concepts, values, lifestyles and habits, and there are also many conflicts between them. Therefore, we must properly handle interpersonal relationships:
First, learn to tolerate others. Many students have no experience of living on campus. Before they went to college, they lived freely. Suddenly, if they want to share a dormitory with several people, they must tolerate other people's lifestyles. If other people's lifestyles hinder your life, you need to put forward your own opinions euphemistically and adjust yourself appropriately. Second, active communication If you want to handle the relationship between classmates, you must be lenient with others and strict with yourself. Don't take me as the center. In our daily life, we should take the initiative to greet our classmates, talk to them and help others. In addition, we should take the initiative to do some public work to increase students' goodwill. Third, pay attention to skills. Be honest with your classmates, but you must use your brains and pay attention to methods and skills when giving suggestions to your classmates. One thing to note is that giving advice to others must not be in front of everyone, so as not to be embarrassed and lose face, and learn to be tolerant.
For study and life, I think we should arrange our time reasonably. So as not to waste precious university four years.
As for English, I think I should keep listening to English news for half an hour every day. Enhance listening, improve oral English, strive for more opportunities to speak in class, communicate with friends in English (fix one or two topics and prepare in advance), and communicate with foreign teachers as much as possible. Read more texts to correct the wrong pronunciation, take notes carefully in class and review more in order to take CET-4 for four years. Memorize more words, improve your vocabulary, prepare two new word books, one is a new word record book, the other is a new word classification book, read the newspaper every day, remember the new words in the new word book one repeatedly, and classify the learned new words one week later to form your own new word classification dictionary. Try to break through 8000 in freshman vocabulary.
We should strengthen our weak practice in technical subjects. After all, sports will be the mainstay in the future. We should not give up bad subjects, but should exercise more. We should not give up because we are not good, but should exercise hard.
Go to the library after class to learn the relevant knowledge of book retrieval and classification, and handle the relationship with teachers and classmates well; Actively participate in class affairs; Cooperate with classmates to engage in small business, cultivate team spirit and accumulate work experience.
Reading is not the only way out for college students. They should take part in various club activities to enhance their abilities, so as to expect all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty. Not just reading.