College roommates are just roommates, but they are not necessarily good friends, because their living habits may be different. You are used to sleeping every day 1 1, but your roommate is used to sleeping at two or three in the middle of the night. If you don't adjust your schedule and take care of each other's emotions, the two will have conflicts and the relationship will not be good. You like to soak in the library every day to look up information and read books. But your roommate likes to go out to bars, restaurants, billiards halls and internet cafes to relax, so your lifestyles are different and you can't have too much contact. It's normal to have contradictions, just learn to respect each other.
Different circles do not need to merge. You should stick to your way of life. There is no need to change anything in order to integrate into the university dormitory, because your original lifestyle is quite good. You can find friends who have something in common with yourself in this same lifestyle. For example, if you like going to the library, you can always find some classmates during your study in the library, so that you can become good friends.
When everyone goes to college, this relationship in the dormitory is different because they are special. Before going to college, they met their roommates in the freshman group, and we belong to the designated type. After specially contacting the seniors, we put our friends together, so the six of us have a very good relationship, because although we have different places, we can tolerate each other. Not all universities have the opportunity to be sensitive to each other's emotions, because some dorms are completely random and cannot be changed, so you can only learn to adapt yourself, and if you can't adapt, you will leave the environment.
Dormitory relationship in college is also one of the most important interpersonal relationships, but if you can't handle it well, stay away. This is the best choice, because you can't change your principles and bottom line in order to integrate into this circle, and your roommates obviously won't deliberately change anything because they want to get along with you. They can take care of you once or twice, but after a long time, because of different lifestyles, they can't be together. It is enough to live well, study hard and make friends well.