1, the psychology of girls' premarital sex
Love psychology
The two fell in love from their first love, and their feelings were inseparable, and there was a feeling of "not seeing Sanqiu for a day". Love has reached a feverish level, and once an oath is made, sex will follow. Although this kind of girl will feel shy when doing "abortion", she does not feel empty and depressed, and even thinks it is a selfless dedication to her boyfriend.
Catering psychology
These girls think that their boyfriends are better than themselves in all aspects. When boyfriends ask for sex, they all agree silently and cater to each other for fear of losing each other.
Possession psychology
This kind of girl thinks her boyfriend is good, and other girls are also competitive with her. In order not to lose in the competition, they have sex, resulting in a fait accompli and achieving the goal of possession.
Conceal one's psychology
They often have sex with their boyfriends when necessary. When a boyfriend asks for sex, he doesn't want to do it from the heart, but he can't resist it.
fluke mind
After having sex for the first time, most people will feel nervous and afraid of getting pregnant. But after a long time, I found nothing, and I was lucky. And I got pregnant.
Obedience psychology
These girls are often threatened and controlled by men when they ask men for help to solve difficulties such as recruitment. Although I didn't want to do it inside, I still had sex with them.
Curious psychology
With the increase of sex hormone level in the body, a series of changes will take place in the body of adolescent girls, and they will be curious about sex at the same time. These girls have sex with curiosity.
Rebellious thoughts
The marriage of these girls is often blocked by family members, relatives and organizations, and she is not allowed to associate with her sweetheart, so she has a rebellious mentality and has sex.
Indifferent psychology
Influenced by the western "sexual liberation", these young girls are indifferent to premarital sex, so they are out of control.
Adolescent girls are hazy and cute, and like to make friends with the opposite sex. The increase of neutral scenes in film and television dramas, rich youth communication and complicated social edification make their sexual awakening of young thoughts advance, arouse their desire to make friends with the opposite sex, and vaguely produce sexual impulses. They are not rich in social experience, shallow, difficult to control their feelings, easy to fall in love, and even regret for a long time. Adolescence is also called sexual crisis by psychologists.
In order to prevent and reduce premarital sexual behavior and pregnancy, teenagers should be given proper positive education in sexual physiology, psychology and morality. At the same time, just as Durex's idea: the perfect combination of body and mind is not only the physiological climax of the body, but also the spiritual fit. This is based on mutual communication and understanding between the two sides. Therefore, before reaching the conditions of mutual understanding and psychological maturity, girls should not have premarital sex impulsively.
2. What are the hazards of premarital sex?
1, premarital sex will bring serious psychological conflicts.
College students' premarital sex usually occurs on the premise of impulse and loss of self-control, and there is no contraception. It is easy to be in a state of fear, anxiety and self-blame afterwards. Girls, in particular, are not only afraid of pregnancy, but also worried about the pressure of study, and generally dare not tell others or parents. This huge psychological conflict will seriously form some sexual barriers or perverts, which will bring hidden dangers to the happy marriage life in the future. The research of sexologists shows that the initial sexual experience has a great influence on the future sexual life, and the unhealthy psychological and sexual behavior formed by the first sexual intercourse will greatly affect the harmony and perfection of the future sexual life of couples.
2. Premarital sex can lead to bad feelings.
People who love each other maintain a hazy, mysterious, implicit and sacred aesthetic feeling, which is extremely attractive. However, premarital sex can easily destroy this feeling. After a qualitative leap, the relationship between the two will be zero distance. Zero distance is easy to cause friction because of trivial matters, and frequent conflicts will make each other not cherish their feelings; There will be suspicion and distrust between two people. In the long run, both sides will feel that you are flirting with others by having sex with me so rashly. Especially influenced by traditional ideas, boys will think that active women are not worth cherishing.
3. Premarital sex will reduce the quality of life after marriage.
Most premarital sex is carried out when love is immature. After a long time, you will find that the other person is not suitable for you. However, after several years of contact, you have spent a lot of material and spiritual resources, and often you have to barely maintain a relationship. However, this kind of love has lost its former glory and beauty. After marriage, you will live in regret, or you will easily have a third party, or you will eventually choose to divorce.
4. premarital sex has caused great physical and mental harm to girls.
Many college students are curious about sex and don't know how to protect themselves. After they got pregnant unexpectedly, they were afraid to go to the hospital for abortion. Some people don't even know they're pregnant. When they understand it after two or three months, they can't do early pregnancy abortion, and they can only induce labor in big months. Whether it is early pregnancy abortion or induced labor in big month, it brings great physical and mental harm to girls, and some serious cases cause lifelong infertility.
5, premarital sex will also bring the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.
Some college students who have sex in places with poor sanitation often cause reproductive diseases. What's more, according to the statistics of the United Nations Population Fund, about 6,000 young people around the world are infected with sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS every day, and half of them are aged 15-24. Women are more vulnerable to HIV infection. Female college students must be cautious about premarital sex.
In our traditional culture, sexual function is not only the pursuit of sexual pleasure, but also the responsibility of maintaining sexual health and inheriting future generations. For the future, parents, schools and society should guide college students to the road of sex science, sex civilization and sex health.