Since ancient times, my fair lady has always been a gentleman, and boys always have to pay something, such as time, mind and property. For school-age girls, what they are willing to accept from boys is to give them face. If this boy dares to fantasize about letting girls AA in the uncertain relationship, then this boy can be removed from the girls' candidate list immediately.

However, from this perspective, boys are hooligans, which is too much. After all, if a boy just invites a girl to dinner or something and doesn't do anything excessive, it's really not a hooligan. The word hooligan has a specific meaning, generally referring to sexual harassment and other acts.

In the absence of a definite relationship between the two parties, all the costs paid by boys in pursuit of girls should be considered as an unrequited investment. If you want girls to come to AA to share the cost just because you think there may be no return, I personally think this behavior is quite low. Because you know, the girl didn't agree with your pursuit. At present, she is just giving you a chance. By doing this, you are asking girls to help you pursue yourself. Why should others?

It's rare to give you a chance. If you behave like this again, you are basically infringing on the rights and interests of girls. How can girls value you? There is a great possibility that the girl will leave soon and will never look at you again. Don't feel how valuable your true feelings are. School-age girls don't lack this kind of true feelings that can only be said by mouth.

For girls, if you don't feel that way about this boy, it is not recommended to agree to a date easily. You don't know what kind of personality this boy is. If you spend his money on a date, you will give them the illusion that you promised him what he wanted.

So, if you are not sure whether you want to be with him or not, you'd better not take advantage of him in money. Not every boy is willing to pay this money when chasing girls. Once he is rejected, it is difficult to guarantee that there will be boys who will be disgusted. At this time, in case this boy has no taste again, it is really not worth the loss to attack you personally.

Generally speaking, it is definitely not hooliganism for boys to ask for AA with girls, but it is not a glorious thing either. If girls are not with boys, don't accept their expensive gifts to avoid possible troubles in the future.

In fact, to put it bluntly, everyone is willing. If one party may not want to, then it is best not to involve money.