Going to school is a must when studying. Go to school to learn knowledge, and you can't stop going to school just because you are in the mood. Don't be angry with your sister, actively analyze the reasons why your sister doesn't want to go to school, such as not adapting to campus life, youthful feelings, being bullied at school, seeking parents' attention, and being influenced by other factors. .....
Have a good talk with my sister, ask her what she thinks about learning and school, whether she has a harmonious relationship with teachers and classmates, and also know about the academic performance and learning status of her close classmates, and whether she has met any friends who don't go to school. The surrounding environment, especially the social environment, has a great influence on children. After all, those who are close to ink are black. Is my sister influenced by some classmates who don't like learning?
Listen to your sister's voice.
As a sister, you and your parents can listen to your sister's thoughts patiently and encourage her to put her mind right. Communicate with my sister more, add some learning topics to the conversation, recall interesting people and things at school, and bring my sister's thoughts back to campus. Use a positive and optimistic attitude to influence my sister, let her feel some positive energy and reduce her resistance to returning to school.
Solve the reason why my sister doesn't want to go to school. Understand her from her sister's point of view, help her and open her heart. For example, eliminate misunderstandings between sisters and classmates, resolve conflicts and re-develop friendship. Or guide my sister to get rid of the influence of negative emotions, return to study, and give her enough time to change.
3. Analyze the advantages and disadvantages of reading for my sister.
As parents and sisters, we should carefully explain the advantages and disadvantages of dropping out of school to our sister and teach our children how to weigh them. It's best to give priority to persuasion, and apply both hard and soft. Books still need to be read, and she doesn't want to be semi-illiterate. Even if your family has money to keep her for life, you can't keep her as a pet all the time. Pets can only please their owners, but they have no independent thoughts of their own. Such a life is worthless and meaningless. When I grow up, the gap between people who study well will become wider and wider, and the social level will become lower and lower.
People who study well can enjoy an open life, not only be well informed, but also be respected. You can talk about the passionate youth of those unrestrained teenagers on the university campus, which naturally fascinates my sister and appreciates the beauty of knowledge. Cultivate my sister's interest in reading and encourage her to return to school and family.