1. Be broad-minded, open-minded and tolerant. You can't make trouble without reason and tide wait for no man. Unreasonable trouble accounts for three points, even all thorns and people. As the saying goes, "decent people, decent people, and villains are always in the same boat." A tolerant person shows his charm while being respected. 2, cultivate a relaxed personality, life is full and emotional, and the rhythm is bright and romantic, which will give people an excellent feeling. This requires us to cultivate a wide range of interests and hobbies after studying and working, be passionate about life, and believe that everything will be fine. 3. Learn to be cheerful and humorous. In interpersonal communication, cheerful and lively people are more likely to be widely praised. Don't close yourself too much, learn to communicate with people around you, integrate into the group, go to others, and let more people know your childlike heart. Humor is welcomed by people, which is not only conducive to their happy and active life, but also brings relaxation and happiness to people around them. It should be noted that humor is not funny, it embodies a kind of wisdom and some unique life experiences, which can be cultivated by enriching one's knowledge and thinking more about life. 4. Emotional expression is sincere and natural. When dealing with friends, be sincere and dare to tell the truth. You can't always say something nice to please each other. Blowing and patting will make others look down on themselves and lose their trust. Be true to yourself in front of friends, show your true self, and don't pretend and imitate it deliberately, otherwise it will be neither fish nor fowl, not worth the candle. 5. Be kind to others and be humble. There is bound to be competition in partnership, and the losses after competition should be treated correctly. The so-called kindness is the progress and gains you have lost to the other party or the other party, which is what you dream of. At this time, you can sincerely congratulate each other and won't be disgusted with jealousy. When you are the winner, you should be modest, don't be complacent, don't show off too much, and support the other side to continue their efforts before you can fight again. 6. Optimistic and enterprising. No matter in study, work or life, you should be a tireless person. You should strive to realize your ideals, create the value of life, and show the spirit of not giving in easily. 7. Be brave in correcting mistakes and have conflicts with friends. Dare to admit your mistakes and make up for them in time. Admitting each other's mistakes will not hurt your face, but will also leave a good impression on your friends. 8. Be friendly and respectful to others. Even familiar friends should pay attention to friendly attitude and respect each other in communication. You can't be spontaneous or outspoken, and you can't talk about your friends' defects or bad experiences, even if there is no malice, it will affect your feelings.