It's hard to say whether it's easy or not. First of all, you are gay, so the other person may not be. You want to be gay friends with others, but they are not in this line, so it is impossible to be gay friends with you. If you want to be a gay friends, you must first investigate each other and see if you are the same kind of people. If so, you can try. If not, it is impossible.

Let me give you a suggestion. Let's find out, or you can quit the gay circle of friends yourself. After all, in China, the problem of homosexuality is not recognized by most people and will not affect your future.