Stay away from villains.
In The Analects of Yang Huo, Confucius said that only women and villains are hard to feed. If you are near, you feel inferior; if you are far away, you complain. In other words, not too close, not too far. It is easy to get disgusted by alienating him, and it is also dangerous to get too close. In fact, it's just a few words to sum up. Stay at a respectful distance and keep a good distance.
This is because the villains are actually very proud. They are very eager for normal interpersonal communication and respect from others. Therefore, we must "respect" him, greet him more when we meet, and be polite when necessary.
Of course, you still have to meet his and your social requirements. Remember not to alienate him deliberately and let him think that you have an opinion of him. If you show your thoughts in front of him, you will suffer sooner or later. The following story tells us why it is wise to stay away from villains and keep a good distance.
In the usual communication, it is especially important to remember that you should never complain or reveal your privacy in front of them. This is very undesirable. Perhaps it is because of your casual words that he became a weapon to attack you in front of others.
At the same time, don't have anything to do with the villain. A villain is often selfish. He has a dispute over interests and will never be fair. Often he takes advantage and you suffer. If it were the other way around, he would definitely ask for something in return. Of course, it's the same sentence: don't get too close to the villain. If you make him feel that you are interested in him, he will be wary of you.